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  • Sep 18, 2021
    Avant

    “ it just doesn’t matter”
    There lies the problem lmao

    Shawty can do whatever she wants and everything goes

    The nigga just has to go along with it, even though it impacts his life

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    If you didn’t want a child, you shouldn’t have had sex.

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    … so for an one time abandonment fee you’ll never have to speak or see your child.

  • Sep 18, 2021
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    OnyxShine9

    Correct. When you bring a child into the world your life is no longer yours, it is the child’s. You created them, you raise them.

    Why doesn’t a man have the same option to eject the same way a woman does with an abortion though?

  • Sep 18, 2021
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    DR LONGSTROKE

    God damn this was a mean burn, this nigga was ready 😭😭😭

    This is crazy that I’m the same dude that gave you good advice when you were having problem in your life, and you return the favor by pumping up a dude making a lame joke against me.

    You hate to see the disloyalty but it is what it is.

  • Sep 18, 2021
    TIIMMY BURNER

    A victim of their mothers creation. If you don't want to make a victim, then don't have it knowing the father wants no involvement and wait until you find a man that does want that involvement. You think forcing someone into fatherhood really produces good father's?

    And precum is used to carry up sperm. If you pee before s***you will clear that track out your precum will not carry up sperm. So on paper, pulling out and condoms have the same effective rate when done 100% the proper way.

    But abortion and walking out aren't the same thing

    As someone else itt already stated, ya'll are trying to equate two things that are fundamentally different.

    Whether the woman chooses to abort or carry full term, it places risk on her health (mental and physical) and her life. Thats why the choice is hers.

    We, as men, don't have to worry about any of that. We don't have to worry about being torn open, we don't have to worry about if our body and self-esteem will ever recover. We don't worry about post-partum or pressure to nurse. We don't worry about having to halt our schooling/careers to have a child.

    I understand a lot of women trap men into parenthood and thats not right. But being a deadbeat doesn't level the playing field. It just makes you a s*** human being.

  • Sep 18, 2021
    Zezima

    Still shouldn’t be in my opinion, because if a woman talked up wanting a baby and got pregnant she’d still be entitled to aborting if she chooses to.

    Men should be afforded the same opportunity.

    I agree with you but we both know that aint gonna fly in our society. Better off tryna go for some type of compromise

    As it is right now they basically have 100% of the power in these situations and men bend to their will.

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    DZE

    Amuse your son my nigga

    My b****es take plan b, about as much control over the situation as you're allowed to have as a man other than get f***ed according to this thread.

  • Sep 18, 2021
    GodsFavoritePerson

    U spitting facts in this thread. But as men we just need to go with the blows . It’s just the truth of the matter, legal system supports women more than men. Just a part of life.

    It’s not about supporting the woman, it’s about supporting the child.

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    Old Man Robin

    … so for an one time abandonment fee you’ll never have to speak or see your child.

    LMFAOOOO this s*** sound mfs moving into a new apartment

    “There’s also the one time administration fee and application fee”

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    Zezima

    This is crazy that I’m the same dude that gave you good advice when you were having problem in your life, and you return the favor by pumping up a dude making a lame joke against me.

    You hate to see the disloyalty but it is what it is.

    I really didn’t mean to be mean I apologize sir

  • Sep 18, 2021

    I keep hearing in this thread, “b-b-but the w-woman ” but not a single “but the child.”

  • Sep 18, 2021
    Jihyo

    this is 1000% true if the condom broke or if the pregnancy was unintentional

    if you intentionally impregnated her and ya'll had that conversation and decided to start that journey then thats your responsibility

    if it was accidental then you have very right to walk out and you shouldn't be required to pay child support either

    That's what I'm saying. I know men that have talked a woman through the whole pregnancy and to keep it, and they then left the child. That's a piece of s***. But if a woman is allowed to say she's not ready and do something about it without being demonized why can the man not be afforded that as well?

  • Sep 18, 2021
    DR LONGSTROKE

    LMFAOOOO this s*** sound mfs moving into a new apartment

    “There’s also the one time administration fee and application fee”

    It’s just child support but with a 20% discount if you pay it all at once

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    TIIMMY BURNER

    My b****es take plan b, about as much control over the situation as you're allowed to have as a man other than get f***ed according to this thread.

    Well if that Plan B don't work out make sure you hop on that Plan "C your son" my nigga

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    OnyxShine9

    If you didn’t want a child, you shouldn’t have had sex.

    But if you tell this to a woman who only wanted a quick f*** and unfortunately got pregnant, she can be omitted and get an abortion regardless of how the man feels.

    It's just not that easy and simple.

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    DR LONGSTROKE

    Why doesn’t a man have the same option to eject the same way a woman does with an abortion though?

    Because it is her body and she makes the ultimate call. You can’t force her to have an abortion. This is what you agreed to when you took the risk of having s***with a woman you didn’t have feelings for without having the discussion beforehand.

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    Niggamortis

    But if you tell this to a woman who only wanted a quick f*** and unfortunately got pregnant, she can be omitted and get an abortion regardless of how the man feels.

    It's just not that easy and simple.

    Correct.

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    Zezima

    This is crazy that I’m the same dude that gave you good advice when you were having problem in your life, and you return the favor by pumping up a dude making a lame joke against me.

    You hate to see the disloyalty but it is what it is.

    This a hip hop forum my guy

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    OnyxShine9

    Correct.

    Do you see how wrong that sounds though.

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    Disloyalty

  • Sep 18, 2021
    DZE

    Well if that Plan B don't work out make sure you hop on that Plan "C your son" my nigga

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    Niggamortis

    Do you see how wrong that sounds though.

    Yes.

  • Sep 18, 2021
    treeman

    I really didn’t mean to be mean I apologize sir

    You good, I’m honestly not easily offended cause life too short for that. Just find it funny how that dude so self absorbed that he could say f*** the dude that tried to help him when he was at a very dark part of life.

    Not offended, just disappointed, but hey that’s his right and I believe I’m right seven if it’s comes at my expense.

  • Sep 18, 2021
    DZE

    Well if that Plan B don't work out make sure you hop on that Plan "C your son" my nigga

    Not if I ain't want that little nigga expressed that greatly while there was still time to do something about it. I didn't go through hell avoiding prison just to get locked down regardless.

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