Just had a realization the other day , I've always been a good listener to those in my life who needed it. I would never try to force a solution, even if it seemed obvious or easy. Also, wouldn't judge at the situation no matter how petty. Yet, when i've felt the need to vent, i'm always hit with "stop complaining" , "you turn me on more when you don't confide or let your hair down", "you need to grow up", and i just can't help but feel a certain way about it. It seems like i have to be 100% at all times and shut the f*** up or else people will look at you as weak.
idk, i've been going through a lot lately and i can't even vent to male friends who've dealt with alot of s*** because they can't even attempt it. I just wanna know how other men out there deal with this.
talk about it if its really bother you dont hold in, but you dont have to express every single thing that bothers you too
Nobody cares about men’s problems
It’s the hardest realization to accept as a man
Nobody cares about men’s problems
It’s the hardest realization to accept as a man
Facts I don’t even care about my own problems because I’m a male and having problems not even manly
Do you vent to your homies? I haven’t had issue with that tbh. So long as you don’t take it too far. Some things you simply need to swallow though, and some things you need to preemptively be prepared with coping mechanisms and mental methods to simply get over it on the spot. It sucks but it is what it is, venting to the wrong person will only make you feel even more like s***.
Think u just need better friends man which are hard asf to come by i know, but cant expect random ppl to give a s*** abt ur problems either cus even if they act as if they do they dont they want u to stop talking 💀 if ur talking abt family then idek thats just f***ed
Realized this a bit ago and its why i barely even try for new friends like i have my one brother i cant see myself clicking with another person like that for the rest of my life
i vent to the bros if i need but i never open up to women anymore s*** weak
can't really vent to women
It’s usually the women in my life that are the most willing to listen to my problems and be empathetic. if she is just going to shut you down when you try to be open she isn’t the one, we have to up our standards in this regard
add it to the list of things men can't do
Nobody cares about men’s problems
It’s the hardest realization to accept as a man
I see s*** like this and it just makes me feel bad for y'all cause damn...y'all ain't got nobody giving a f*** about you? What's wrong with y'all?
Nobody cares about men’s problems
It’s the hardest realization to accept as a man
27 likes jesus christ
thank god I can't relate.
almost like the forum that d***rides "stoicism" is realizing that maybe portraying yourself as an unfeeling robot isn't the way to go?
I see s*** like this and it just makes me feel bad for y'all cause damn...y'all ain't got nobody giving a f*** about you? What's wrong with y'all?
It’s reality bruh
If a dude is down bad he might get some pity but people aren’t gonna go out of there way to help
27 likes jesus christ
thank god I can't relate.
almost like the forum that d***rides "stoicism" is realizing that maybe portraying yourself as an unfeeling robot isn't the way to go?
This has nothing to do with stoicism, it’s just life lol
It’s reality bruh
If a dude is down bad he might get some pity but people aren’t gonna go out of there way to help
Got a group chat of homeboys that we’ve been venting to each other about real s*** for 7+ years my brotha in christ.
Got 3-4 homegirls I know I could vent to rn and would lend me the space.
This sxn doesnt understand how to barely make friends though