I b**** a lot. but has to be to likeminded friends otherwise I assume they won't care. has to be a relationship where we can both vent. Thank you female friends, although sometimes it has to be male friends.

once again, that’s why we smoke

If those people in those group chats actually help you out and vice-versa then that’s great

But a majority of men don’t have that and it’s not about friends either, cuz I’ve had friends that I’ve told personal things to and throw it back in my face

At the end of day if you struggle as a man, you’re the only one that’s gonna get yourself out of it

I’m sorry that that’s been your experience.

I just don’t feel confident in saying that’s the norm.

There’s literal ig pages dedicated to black men therapy.

This is true

damn i should be more appreciative of my friends

you a b**** if you need to "vent" as a man

Yeah bro please speak for yourself lmao

it is the norm. u live in a bubble of "ig pages dedicated to black men therapy"

Or i live in a “being proactive in making spaces for black men to be vulnerable so i dont turn into a negative reinforcement ass nigga venting on a kanye messageboard about how men cant be vulnerable” bubble.

But nah, let’s not be the change we wanna see.

Get f***ing real, the whole world is structured to reduce the problems of men unfairly. Go outside bozo

These niggas dont even wanna try to put the shadow work in to be the change they wanna see in the world.

Where? Lmao

If anything there are more depressed, struggling men then ever before

Legit, if you want other men to give a f*** about you maybe you should 1. Give a f*** about their problems and 2. Stop being a misogynist

Shhhhh.

This forum is not solution based at all.

That’s why threads about men tryna start a discussion about times we’ve felt in the topic of men getting SA’d get bare pages but threads complaining about women not caring about men getting SA’d get 20+ pages

like hvac?

Thats not because “people dont care about mens problems”

And that involves doing it yourself lol

Did y’all even get the point?

Every human on this planet has to solve problems ultimately by themselves.

F*** it, we ball

And contrary to popular belief, every man doesn’t wanna deal with a b**** with ultra super duper “my life is trash” low self esteem either

Any human that is 110% miserable is gonna be draining to be around whether you are a man or a woman.

and sometimes you are gonna have to figure out why that is on your own (or with therapy, which you can get for free on medicaid. Ask me how I know this)

For the most part it does

There’s a reason the suicide rate for men is so high rn

There’s a reason a bunch of men out here are carrying trauma of being molested (especially by a woman) and not getting help because they won’t be taken as serious

There’s a reason men can’t open up to their partners because most of the time they get dumped for showing their vulnerability.

I can go on and on lol

Deadass if you got NOBODY, no friends, family, or s*** even co-workers looking out for you it might be time to do a lil self-reflection to find out why that is. Hate to break it to you, but the reality is it's likely a you problem that you refuse to work on.

Blessed to have people in my life who got me the way I got them. Hope y'all work on yourselves and find those people who got you. Cause to have nobody, or assume you got nobody, is some miserable ass s*** lol

Deadass like damn b**** knock off all that sad s*** and lemme wipe ya a****** clean with my tongue to cheer you up