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  • Jan 24, 2022
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    lil ufo

    it's better to not argue with parents even tho you know they are wrong
    most of them will never admit that their kid was right
    it's easier to shut them off with a 'I'm sorry, will not happen again' than to stir s*** and flip the entire vibe upside down

    letting anyone, regardless of who they are to you, get away with being wrong all the time creates an even worse environment for everyone involved

  • eclass ⛓️
    Jan 24, 2022

    Sounds like some petty s*** mom's do. My mom used to go ape s*** because I left a cup in my room.

    Anyways, I don't think what you did was necessarily wrong but in those situations I would just defuse the situation as quick as possible. Remember, you not always gonna have to put up with your Mom's BS for the rest of your life. IMO, just take whatever is dished and move out ASAP.

  • Jan 24, 2022

    Not reading that

  • lil ufo 🛸
    Jan 24, 2022
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    slime wrld

    letting anyone, regardless of who they are to you, get away with being wrong all the time creates an even worse environment for everyone involved

    I know but you gotta weigh all the options, my dad was abusive and responding to him would only fire up things more.

  • Jan 24, 2022
    lil ufo

    it's better to not argue with parents even tho you know they are wrong
    most of them will never admit that their kid was right
    it's easier to shut them off with a 'I'm sorry, will not happen again' than to stir s*** and flip the entire vibe upside down

    yeah, no if you’re wrong you’re wrong and if you don’t let people know that you’re worse for it

  • Jan 25, 2022
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    lil ufo

    it's better to not argue with parents even tho you know they are wrong
    most of them will never admit that their kid was right
    it's easier to shut them off with a 'I'm sorry, will not happen again' than to stir s*** and flip the entire vibe upside down

    What the f*** are you talking about

    This man is 20+ years old getting berated by his mom

    Time to grow up

  • Jan 25, 2022
    HITSLIKEDIETCOKE

    Man it is what it is, I'm just speaking on facts literally lol. It's up to you to decide what's right or wrong

    Nah you’re not speaking facts

    OP’s mom’s behavior was emotionally abusive

    This kind of behavior has been shown to negatively impact a child’s development

    It’s simply not a good way to behave as a person. Bad for the people around you

  • Jan 25, 2022
    lil ufo

    I know but you gotta weigh all the options, my dad was abusive and responding to him would only fire up things more.

    Sounds like you internalized the abuse and haven’t healed from it

  • lil ufo 🛸
    Jan 25, 2022
    ooooo

    What the f*** are you talking about

    This man is 20+ years old getting berated by his mom

    Time to grow up

    I'm talking from my own experience and what worked better for me.
    Time to start considering how everyone's situation is different and it's not that easy as writing down 3 lines on an internet forum.

  • Jan 25, 2022
    lil ufo

    it's better to not argue with parents even tho you know they are wrong
    most of them will never admit that their kid was right
    it's easier to shut them off with a 'I'm sorry, will not happen again' than to stir s*** and flip the entire vibe upside down