That's pretty much it. A lounge where both of you feel equally comfortable.

Lot of relationships burn out hard because they don't have that kind of a valve to let off steam when the pressure builds up. Do it right and it could really be a pretty awesome addition to your guys' day to day functioning.

I'm hoping so. I don't do relationships much, much less one where we are living together so I'm always curious people's opinions or dynamics. Me and my girl spend practically every moment of being home, together. We bounce from living room to bedroom living room to bedroom, so I think it'll nice for her to have an area of her own she can set up how she likes and have that space comfortably rather than one person having to be in the living room for any semblance of alone time.

Sharing beds is for peons. Do your thing, OP.

For not doing relationships much, you seem quite balanced and in tune with how you want to approach it, so that's half the battle already won

No need to be influenced by any preconceived notions of how a relationship "should" evolve/progress. Just let the natural flow of things guide you and it'll work like magic in a way that is wholly unique to just the two of you!

personally i'd want this. need my space

Do what works for your relationship

I mean I bet she ends up sleeping in your room. Then once you push her away she’ll break up and you’ll be stuck with your Ex as a roommate getting her guts rearranged but yours truly

When she's on her period, she's got to go purify herself, take that week off to get cleansed.
Outside of that, separation isn't the wav. That's your bestie. Periods are built in vacations, lol

I wouldn't be stuck with anything it's my crib, but even then we talked about her living there if we broke up. Long as you pay me my skrilla I wouldn't mind her being a roommate especially since she said she would still be tryna let me beat

thats not true at all
i don't like sleeping in the same bed as people cause it take a lot for me to go to sleep. i feel trapped i guess... i also get too warm having another person there.

ive heard that some couples who sleep in the same bed have more strain on their relationship bc they don't have similar sleep habits and piss each other off when they can't sleep right.

A bit weird but I guess if the individual rooms too small for 2 people to live in then it would makes sense.

I think it should be the norm, if you wanna sleep w me cool, but it just makes a lot of sense to me

My girl doesn't get periods, so no built in vacations. She is my bestie, do you spend every waking hour and minute with your besties? Or do you allow them the ability to breathe comfortably in their own space? We still sleeping together every night, but I've also noticed when I get up from bed my girls like to starfish so like cool have your own you can do that without having to be mindful of my space for your entire life.

And also just having your own room you can go to when you want some alone time is great too. I don't hardly even listen to new drops as often or as frequent as I'd like because we are always around each other or one of us already has music going on a speaker somewhere. Now you in your room jamming I can do the same without worrying about interfering with you ect ect. You wanna watch tv in the comfort of bed while I'm in the comfort of my bed gaming? You can do that. It's a lot of benefits to it.

She doesn’t get periods

If both of you are comfortable with it and no one is having ulterior motives or issues I don't see why not. I like to cuddle tho, so it's not for me. But having some private space definitly makes sense especially once you've been in a relationship for some time.

Separate houses

my grandparents sleep in separate rooms

Now where did u get this from

OP if she sleeping w u in ur room every night, then make that other room something cool for you and share the one y’all sleep in

Or you tryna have 2 separate bedrooms in the apt? That don’t make sense to me if y’all actively sleeping in the same one

My wife and I sleep in the same bed about half the time because she works nights (from home) and I gotta go to bed earlier. I like my space but I like to cuddle sometimes too.

When you've been married a while you go through different schedules and you gotta make it work.

Sounds solid ig

This tho