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  • Dec 6, 2022
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    xviii

    so @op

    did you actually have a connection/spark or was it all in your mind

    I lied to myself too many times in the past and convinced myself that a girl was into me, when I just didn't admit that I either messed it up by not fully commiting or bringing my best or that she wasn't feeling me or her head was in other place.

    Lots of touching smiles and laughs

    Second girl we even kissed.

    Idk I actually tend to underestimate myself because I’m insecure

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  • Dec 6, 2022
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    Flaxx

    It happened again with a new girl, but this time we went on 2 dates.

    It’s over.

    Simply she didnt f*** with you enough and theres someone more attractive to her waiting

  • Dec 6, 2022
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    A New Impression

    Simply she didnt f*** with you enough and theres someone more attractive to her waiting

    Completely fine but why can’t they just say it lol

    One text ‘yea not feelin it’

  • KFA 🏛️
    Dec 6, 2022
    Flaxx

    Completely fine but why can’t they just say it lol

    One text ‘yea not feelin it’

    This won't be the last time it'll happen to you

  • plants 🌻
    Dec 6, 2022
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    Flaxx

    Completely fine but why can’t they just say it lol

    One text ‘yea not feelin it’

    hey sorry that was my sister yeah she said she could smell that you jerked off before your second date and that put her off

  • Flaxx

    Completely fine but why can’t they just say it lol

    One text ‘yea not feelin it’

    Its easier to not say anything

  • Dec 6, 2022
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    Whenever I see threads like these I just think how blessed aromantic asexual people are

  • Dec 6, 2022
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    Like they just go on with their life no need to get into dating and treat it like a part time job

  • KFA 🏛️
    Dec 6, 2022
    plants

    hey sorry that was my sister yeah she said she could smell that you jerked off before your second date and that put her off

  • plants 🌻
    Dec 6, 2022
    Moonchaser

    Whenever I see threads like these I just think how blessed aromantic asexual people are

    unbothered, in their lane, moisturized and hydrated

  • Dec 6, 2022
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    Officially given up now. Broke contact with the talking stages, deleted all the apps.

    Only gym and work for the next 2 years.

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  • KFA 🏛️
    Dec 6, 2022
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    Moonchaser

    Whenever I see threads like these I just think how blessed aromantic asexual people are

    Most asexual persons just want to hide the fact they're virgins and just gave up.

    Asexual sounds better than virgin at 30.

  • Dec 6, 2022
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    Flaxx

    Officially given up now. Broke contact with the talking stages, deleted all the apps.

    Only gym and work for the next 2 years.

    Nah. Keep shooting

    Kobe’s watching

  • KFA 🏛️
    Dec 6, 2022
    Flaxx

    Officially given up now. Broke contact with the talking stages, deleted all the apps.

    Only gym and work for the next 2 years.

    Bro, this is only the second time and even if its the 10th time its part of the game.

    Dont just give up and get salty at woman

  • Dec 6, 2022
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    KFA

    Most asexual persons just want to hide the fact they're virgins and just gave up.

    Asexual sounds better than virgin at 30.

    What

  • plants 🌻
    Dec 6, 2022
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    TTU

    What

    yeah dudes way off the mark with that one

  • Dec 6, 2022
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    Flaxx

    Lots of touching smiles and laughs

    Second girl we even kissed.

    Idk I actually tend to underestimate myself because I’m insecure

    Yeah try working on your insecurities, we've all got em. Don't take it too harshly tho you never know what was going on her end. Generally when girls are REALLY into you they'll full send it, and you should do the same.

    It's one of those things where if it's gonna be serious you'll never be guessing.

  • Dec 6, 2022
    xviii

    Yeah try working on your insecurities, we've all got em. Don't take it too harshly tho you never know what was going on her end. Generally when girls are REALLY into you they'll full send it, and you should do the same.

    It's one of those things where if it's gonna be serious you'll never be guessing.

    I wish I knew what to work on specifically and had someone telling me where I f***ed up

  • Dec 6, 2022
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    Flaxx

    Officially given up now. Broke contact with the talking stages, deleted all the apps.

    Only gym and work for the next 2 years.

    If they don't want you now but they are interested in you only after you look better and have more money you've solved nothing

    You did all of that for other people's pleasure and not yours

    It may start more relationships but it's not gonna maintain them

    Focus on growing up not glowing up

  • Dec 6, 2022
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    Moonchaser

    Like they just go on with their life no need to get into dating and treat it like a part time job

    They probably live with a crazy amount of fomo right?

  • Dec 6, 2022
    KFA

    Most asexual persons just want to hide the fact they're virgins and just gave up.

    Asexual sounds better than virgin at 30.

    Or they're a deeply sexual person that is disgusted by their own sexuality and won't own it due to insecurities.
    Trust me lmao

  • Dec 6, 2022
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    i will never stop saying this.
    trying to court a female in the internet age is no different than job hunting in the internet age. the amount of availability at your fingertips gives you the illusion of choice, but something that you don’t see is that for every opportunity, there’s 20 other people trying to achieve the same success as you. Ultimately, it comes down to luck and timing. nothing much you can do aside from working on working towards the best version of yourself, treat women well, respectfully , and hope for the best

  • KFA 🏛️
    Dec 6, 2022
    TTU

    What

    Ofc there are 'real' asexual people out there but I dont believe thats the majority.

    Just a feeling, no facts, so I could be wrong