ion think its that deep

if the women doing that are also complaining about the pay gap

well then i truly dont know

If you want a stay at home wife and serve you then you are gonna provide. If yall split 50/50 then you don't have to pay everything.

i would like to hope its died out among those below the age of 30 but i’ve seen people my age (21) agree with this

If you can afford it, and want to do it then do it. It really ain’t that deep imo. Black Twitter/social media needs to free themselves of this conversation.

I will pay for everything if me n my girl goes out n I got the money. If I don’t she’ll cover it cause she got her own. They key is to not go broke trying to flex for a shorty. Stop stuntin.

If I’m dating, I got no issue paying. If I’m out with female friends I tell they ass separate checks usually unless I got enough on me that it don’t matter.

yeah, one of my biggest dating fears is that i meet a shorty that tries to project this antiquated dynamic on me

tbh i'm never tryna pay for a date, unless it's a girl i'm already vibin w/, but i'd hope she does the same

I don’t have a problem with treating someone out on a date, or going out in general thats an independent situation. I’m talking bills and rent/mortgage and everything that’s needed to sustain a life.

Some of these bits lazy and got no ambition

I mean, nowadays you don’t really have a choice.

Unless your significant other is cool with just living at their parents’ place

Sounds like an awful life tbh.

I wish my girl would get a job, I love having everything catered to me and s***, but damn some help on bills would be coo 🤕

No bro that is not what they talking about. They saying the woman doesn’t even have any income or if she does then she does not spend any money she makes on bills

Huh??????
Tf is that last sentence

If I’m up then I got it. If I’m not, then I’m not gonna try n flex as if I got it, knowing it’ll hurt my pockets.

I can almost guarantee that you “don’t got it”.
Unless you are already set up for life, you don’t got it

Take that money paying for b****es food that u aren’t even dating, and put it into stocks or options or crypto or real estate or a ROTH IRA. They can pay for themselves or else they wouldn’t be there
If they pay for you an equal amount of times though then that’s perfectly fine but if not, you making them richer and yourself poorer

Yea nah. You sound like one of those “poor people shouldn’t have any recreational activities” type.

Nah not at all that type. But you are already spending more money than usual if you are going out to eat or any other date type activity, then you are saying you are paying for multiple people as well
People that could pay for themselves
Like I said, if they do the same for you then cool
But if not, that money could just be going to better places

If you are wealthy then none of this matters but if not, I’d rather see a brother invest in themselves/their future

Hell nah, yea they on some other s***.

Both incomes going in the pot and we budgeting off both. You can be the baddest you not bringing no income at all I’m good on that relationship.

The Game is rich he can do that, the problem with that mindset is that most Americans are broke and can't afford to that. It's also based off old gender roles and a lot of women want to do something more than be a housewife.

I thought housewives was more of a caucasian thing

Why tho? Ppl make livings off cooking cleaning and sex. If those r ur responsibilities how are you lesser than anyone else

Yeah definitely agree with you here. I don't date girls who aren't willing to make their own money and build towards our future.

Although if we get to a point financially where both people don't need to be earning an income I wouldn't mind being in the provider role but she must have been contributing for at least a few years before I would consider that.

You think all she does for you is worth paying all her bills and expenses? At a certain point hiring a maid might be cheaper

It’s different if it’s an actual contractual job. You know I wasn’t suggesting anybody is less of a person for doing that kind of work.