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  • Updated Oct 31, 2020

    There was this situation a while back where I was in a group chat with some other people. We would talk everyday about things going on in our lives, our friends, and things we enjoyed. i posted a picture of this girl I was talking to who I would talk to every night, just to show her off. We all would do this.

    She was my everything. My closest friend and confidant. The only issue was, she was 17 and I was 22 and despite our feelings for each other I knew it'd be better to wait until she was 18 so everything was kosher.

    Knowing that she was 17, and knowing that I liked her, one of the people in the group added her on Instagram and paid her to sext him. He was 25. He didn't just add her on Instagram either, he stalked her on 6 different social medias to contact her because her Instagram was Request Only.

    It was this weird Sub/Dom relationship where he would pay her to Dom him and call him the N word and a Black slave and all this other weird crap.

    Here's the thing...I know she did it just to tell me about it. Just to see what I would do and how I respond, so I decided to beat her at her game. I laughed about it and didn't get mad at either one of them.

    A while later I made a joke about the situation in the chat and he left for 3 months because it hurt his feelings to have someone make a joke about him adding a girl he knew someone else liked, who was a minor, who he was paying to Dom him and call him the N word. Like someone f***ed him over.

    The people in the chat started bullying me over it and when it was clear he wasn't coming back, they started a rumor that I had hit on some kids at Six Flags who had approached me when I had went there with another member who I ignored and walked away from because they were 12.
    They didn't just spread the rumor there, they found all the Discords I was in with mutual friends and started spreading that filth to protect their pedophile friend. Someone I forgave when I could have called the police.

    I accepted that it was over, left the chat, then left them alone. But they weren't done with me.

    One of the members joined another Discord I was in and kept bringing up the 12 year olds hitting on me everytime he could. Making it seem intentional even when I had screenshots of them admitting I ignored them. He kept doing this for months, and his friend who added the girl he knew I liked kept trying to contact her for more sexting because he didn't know we still talked. She showed me and when I exposed him from it in another group I found out we shared, he got a friend of his who's a diagnosed sociopath to get me banned.

    They had found a picture of me on social media and made it their discord logo and someone showed me so I found a picture of the pedo dude and posted it in the group with his friend harassing me and the guy got one of his friends to report my account for "doxxing". This was on purpose to get me kicked out of a group where I had close friends just because it was funny for him.

    All this started because I forgave that man for doing something so gross. He sent me an "apology" but I know it's just because I stopped being nice about the situation and telling people who are mutual friends what happened.

    Will I ever be able to trust and move on? Friendship has been hard since this has happened and it was a year ago.

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    Read halfway and realized I don’t got time for all this.

    But TLDR: drop them. Surround yourself with genuine people

  • Oct 31, 2020

    You were in a pedophile chat. S*** crazy!

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    First off you already made this thread idk how you’re still dealing with this problem

    Second off how do you have proof of the 12 year olds saying you ignored them? You texting preteens champ?

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    papawheely

    First off you already made this thread idk how you’re still dealing with this problem

    Second off how do you have proof of the 12 year olds saying you ignored them? You texting preteens champ?

    They hit on me at six flags. I never met them before the moment they hit on me at six flags.

    No 12 year olds were saying I was hitting on them. This was in line.

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    SecretGarden

    They hit on me at six flags. I never met them before the moment they hit on me at six flags.

    No 12 year olds were saying I was hitting on them. This was in line.

    That doesn’t answer the question lol you said in op you had a screenshot of them admitting you ignored them?

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    Janet

    Read halfway and realized I don’t got time for all this.

    But TLDR: drop them. Surround yourself with genuine people

    I want to make him suffer for all the pain he put me through when I never did anything to him, even after something as gross as getting involved with someone from my personal life.

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    SecretGarden

    I want to make him suffer for all the pain he put me through when I never did anything to him, even after something as gross as getting involved with someone from my personal life.

    So this person isn’t even in your personal life? Just discord/online?

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    papawheely

    That doesn’t answer the question lol you said in op you had a screenshot of them admitting you ignored them?

    I did, but it was on my old phone that is broken. You realize, once again, they approached me and I said nothing to them right?

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    papawheely

    So this person isn’t even in your personal life? Just discord/online?

    He went around spreading lies among different discords I was in about the situation to try and get me kicked out of all my friend groups because he didn't want people knowing he pays minors to sext him.

  • Sounds like youre in shambolics my friend. Time to reevaluate things

  • Oct 31, 2020
    SecretGarden

    I did, but it was on my old phone that is broken. You realize, once again, they approached me and I said nothing to them right?

    If you said nothing to them how are you getting them to vouch that you ignored them lmao how does one make that screenshot happen with no contact

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    SecretGarden

    He went around spreading lies among different discords I was in about the situation to try and get me kicked out of all my friend groups because he didn't want people knowing he pays minors to sext him.

    Are you purposely not answering my questions directly

  • papawheely

    Are you purposely not answering my questions directly

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    papawheely

    Are you purposely not answering my questions directly

    WHAT ARE YOU ASKING

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    SecretGarden

    WHAT ARE YOU ASKING

    I asked if you knew this person or if they’re just on discord/online

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    SecretGarden

    I want to make him suffer for all the pain he put me through when I never did anything to him, even after something as gross as getting involved with someone from my personal life.

    You're thinking with hate in your heart.

    I know he damaged you but hurting him back won't fix anything

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    Janet

    You're thinking with hate in your heart.

    I know he damaged you but hurting him back won't fix anything

    It won't but it'll be fun to see him on the s***offender registry for a crime he commited. He was 25 and she was 17.

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    'So I decided to beat her at her game'

    Did you though? Did you really?

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    papawheely

    I asked if you knew this person or if they’re just on discord/online

    No, I don't.

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    What’s with discord dudes and minors

  • Oct 31, 2020
    DwindlingSun

    'So I decided to beat her at her game'

    Did you though? Did you really?

    She wanted me to expose him when she told me about it so I thought I did. But I see now she was right and I shouldn't have been so nice about it.

  • Oct 31, 2020

    Those guys you was with was weird losers. Appreciate the good times you had and move on. Way cooler people for you to build friendships with

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    If that girl you talking to aint black and saying that s*** then she just as weird and lame as them dudes too. Just to even entertain dat type of s***

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    SecretGarden

    No, I don't.

    I legit don’t have any nice words to respond with

    I’d take a whole break from the Internet if I got myself this ludicrously deep into what can only be described as discord drama