You were 22 and had a crush on a 17 year old... I'm not reading the rest because I already don't feel bad for you
also circulating photos of a minor in a groupchat full of adults is weird as f***
She used to post pictures of me too, I don't see why two people who like each other wouldn't do that.
She used to post pictures of me too, I don't see why two people who like each other wouldn't do that.
it's especially weird as the adult to do it
First off you already made this thread idk how you’re still dealing with this problem
Second off how do you have proof of the 12 year olds saying you ignored them? You texting preteens champ?
no wonder i got deja vu reading the first half
it's especially weird as the adult to do it
Her parents knew and approved of us talking so there's nothing you can really say to me that would make me feel bad especially when our relationship wasn't sexual
Her parents knew and approved of us talking so there's nothing you can really say to me that would make me feel bad especially when our relationship wasn't sexual
I don't care whether or not you feel bad, you've already demonstrated the lack of care by doing so.
It's still weird.
I don't care whether or not you feel bad, you've already demonstrated the lack of care by doing so.
It's still weird.
I'll play devil's advocate and mention that the age of consent where I live in 16.
So would it have been less weird if I had smashed? Knowing it was legal?
Ok good problem solved 👍
So what do they have to do with you not trusting anyone.
They ruined my reputation with other people with lies to protect their pedo buddy and it still bothers me
I'll play devil's advocate and mention that the age of consent where I live in 16.
So would it have been less weird if I had smashed? Knowing it was legal?
And the age of consent in Japan is 13.
Above and below 18 have too much of a contrast mentally that keeps me from seeing the two mixed as a good thing.
Do you though.
Idk if I’d still wanna be in the discord after that
Oh I'm for sure done with him and I've learned my lesson on showing forgiveness for any type of wrong doing.
And the age of consent in Japan is 13.
Above and below 18 have too much of a contrast mentally that keeps me from seeing the two mixed as a good thing.
Do you though.
Hot damn 13?
And the age of consent in Japan is 13.
Above and below 18 have too much of a contrast mentally that keeps me from seeing the two mixed as a good thing.
Do you though.
So she was 17 and already in college, she goes to Harvard now because of some scholarship program. She had a job and her own car she paid for herself.
She wasn't some kid who stayed at home all day watching Adventure Time or something. I get what you're saying but it wasn't what you think.
So she was 17 and already in college, she goes to Harvard now because of some scholarship program. She had a job and her own car she paid for herself.
She wasn't some kid who stayed at home all day watching Adventure Time or something. I get what you're saying but it wasn't what you think.
Doesn't matter, if I'm 22 or 23 then I'm not eyeing a 17 year old and waiting for them to hit 18 to make serious moves lmfao.
It's weird as f***.
But like I said, do you.
Oh I'm for sure done with him and I've learned my lesson on showing forgiveness for any type of wrong doing.
The lesson learning part goes further back than the forgiveness part tho
I won’t judge you cause I’m not normal myself but it doesn’t sound like you were in a chat where everyone was on the same page of respecting each other’s personal lives and having boundaries to not do weird s***
Thus, you shouldn’t have been that comfortable even posting the pic - especially given how the age of the girl would be perceived in a worst case scenario (which ended up happening)
Doesn't matter, if I'm 22 or 23 then I'm not eyeing a 17 year old and waiting for them to hit 18 to make serious moves lmfao.
It's weird as f***.
But like I said, do you.
So last year when I was 23 this 17 year old girl hit on me at work and put her head on my shoulder one day and I rejected her based on her age. I wouldn't either.
The lesson learning part goes further back than the forgiveness part tho
I won’t judge you cause I’m not normal myself but it doesn’t sound like you were in a chat where everyone was on the same page of respecting each other’s personal lives and having boundaries to not do weird s***
Thus, you shouldn’t have been that comfortable even posting the pic - especially given how the age of the girl would be perceived in a worst case scenario (which ended up happening)
Yeah I've learned a lot from this situation. You're right.