Doing great. Doubling my income. Loyal supportive wifey. Getting more credentials for my field. Life is good.

Why not the 2nd one too tho

You don't gotta tell me twice. Been on that

Crying

It’s true that if you know a little Spanish the latinas will be a little more open but please don’t put them on a pedestal, they are women at the end of the day with flaws like anyone else.

stop fetishizing latinas

I should've learned Spanish instead of French, I don't even go to Canada like that anymore

All I know in Spanish is my order, how to flirt for some tacos, and Cayendo by Frank

oh he fiendin

"ron mexico"

It's only because Kendrick buried the dogs

he byke

Of course nobody is perfect but I def think as long as they learned enough Spanish/cultural customs, the average guy would prob have a more enjoyable experience dating a Latina who lives in the US but is more in touch with her culture than someone who is more Americanized.

The difference in like receptiveness, average attractiveness and relationship oriented behaviors is hella stark imo.

Increase your language skills and go slide some fine s*** my boy

Or find your next wifey

Explain how I’m fetishizing.

In my experience the average Latina I’ve met has been more attractive, more receptive, more easy going or down to earth, more relationship oriented or willing to work with their partner compared to most white or white-washed or American culture adjacent women I’ve met (except maybe black or African women, I’d say I mesh with them to the same level)

Keep in mind I’m saying those that speak Spanish as their primary language and are still heavily engaged in their cultural community.

Obviously every individual is different but how is it that you’re trying to attach a negative to what I’m saying

leave them alone!!!

literally in a relationship, I’m just talking and explaining options to people who may not those options are there

No family, I’m educating

These mfs hating g s*** crazy

You think they would take game and run with it but so many mfs inhibit themselves and let social media and other people dictate how they live their lives or what options they explore in their lives

S*** is sad asf

@op theyre scared of themselves and hating

Especially if you have intentions to be a good person with whoever you pull youre allowed to like things and learn languages, latinas are hot but obviously dont put anyone on a pedestal, goes without saying tho, i learned spanish to make my job easier and because of that i ended up getting approached at work by a girl i previously thought was too hot for me and now we’re together

I already got my baby, she from Trini

I'll never go out like crodie

Always wanted to go to Trinidad, thats dope g. Wby whats your background?

Also, Holy s*** bro is down bad fr

I’ve cried over my shorty before but never could I be like this. Bro doesn’t realize how he looks to the world smh. His girl looks so over it.

I mean I guess maybe he doesn’t gaf but he looks pathetic. You can express pain but there is a point where you gotta cut your losses. And it sounds like bro cheated first. Smh lmao.

So true. Why is that? I don’t even think the s*** I say is super controversial mfs be acting like im just spouting straight taboo or sum lol chronically online twitter ass mfs, mfs let the timeline tell them how to live their lives. Quick to be sheep and conform to the judgment of the group due to fear of being themselves. Mfs live supressed lives fr, inhibiting themselves to get the “OK” of people who dgaf about them anyways 😂😂 wtf

And ofc, good intentions go without saying. You can never put anyone on a pedestal. And it sounds like you’re an exact example of what I’m telling mfs. Learn spanish, go and meet people and you can probably meet and connect with a pretty latina who you previously may have thought would be out of your league or ability to have a relationship with.

The way you described it originally sounded like s***tourism, which is going to a poorer country to have s***or a relationship with people cause they’re poorer than you and more likely to be obedient

A white girl meeting a Korean guy cause she likes Kpop might be a bit weird but she’s not using him cause he’s poor she’s genuinely interested and just sounds nerdy but sweet, if it starts out of a love for the culture of a country (not rooted in exploitable sexual relationship dynamics) then fair enough

Your phrasing was bad then. Learning a second (or more) language to not be just another dumbass American and get exposed to other cultures is cool. Doing so specifically to get laid like your first post made it seem is too calculated, that comes off as creepy

Yeah no I wasn’t talking s***tourism, more like meeting someone who is in the US but more involved in their own culture still compared to someone who is like fully Americanized.

I don’t f*** with certain aspects of American culture, s*** is white washed, cold, individualistic to the point of people being so focused on their own bubble that other people can b seen as disposable or lesser if they don’t show certain status markers to make an imprint in some peoples perception.

I feel like a lot of these things come from modernization in general so those kinds of factors can be at play in many countries or societies but personally I would much rather date someone who comes from a more family oriented, warm, down to earth culture. Less superficiality, you have more potential value to someone because you are being assessed more as a person than you are based on American capitalistic status indicators. Culture affects how people operate. And the difference between cultures is stark.

There is a certain vibe I get when I’m talking to people who are from or more immersed in African cultures, Latin cultures, Caribbean cultures and some middle eastern or Asian cultures that I just don’t get from more Americanized people. I don’t know how to describe it but it is felt. Especially when it comes to dating.