Zach LaBeam

6mo

Your phrasing was bad then. Learning a second (or more) language to not be just another dumbass American and get exposed to other cultures is cool. Doing so specifically to get laid like your first post made it seem is too calculated, that comes off as creepy

DR LONGSTROKE

6mo

Yeah no I wasn’t talking s***tourism, more like meeting someone who is in the US but more involved in their own culture still compared to someone who is like fully Americanized.

I don’t f*** with certain aspects of American culture, s*** is white washed, cold, individualistic to the point of people being so focused on their own bubble that other people can b seen as disposable or lesser if they don’t show certain status markers to make an imprint in some peoples perception.

I feel like a lot of these things come from modernization in general so those kinds of factors can be at play in many countries or societies but personally I would much rather date someone who comes from a more family oriented, warm, down to earth culture. Less superficiality, you have more potential value to someone because you are being assessed more as a person than you are based on American capitalistic status indicators. Culture affects how people operate. And the difference between cultures is stark.

There is a certain vibe I get when I’m talking to people who are from or more immersed in African cultures, Latin cultures, Caribbean cultures and some middle eastern or Asian cultures that I just don’t get from more Americanized people. I don’t know how to describe it but it is felt. Especially when it comes to dating.

DR LONGSTROKE

6mo

Always wanted to go to Trinidad, thats dope g. Wby whats your background?

Also, Holy s*** bro is down bad fr

I’ve cried over my shorty before but never could I be like this. Bro doesn’t realize how he looks to the world smh. His girl looks so over it.

I mean I guess maybe he doesn’t gaf but he looks pathetic. You can express pain but there is a point where you gotta cut your losses. And it sounds like bro cheated first. Smh lmao.

Snowboy

6mo

sociopath type thread

huge choppie fan

6mo

this was a hilarious read as a latino myself

Block Muteson

6mo

GreatDivine daughter or Dr Longstroke son

DR LONGSTROKE

6mo

Always wanted to go to Trinidad, thats dope g. Wby whats your background?

Also, Holy s*** bro is down bad fr

I’ve cried over my shorty before but never could I be like this. Bro doesn’t realize how he looks to the world smh. His girl looks so over it.

I mean I guess maybe he doesn’t gaf but he looks pathetic. You can express pain but there is a point where you gotta cut your losses. And it sounds like bro cheated first. Smh lmao.

Smacked Voodoo

6mo

Keep your foul degenerate ass tf out my motherland

DR LONGSTROKE

6mo

Tons of people are confident being a loser or just not making progress in different areas of their life. Some people have different standards of living but I still think complacency is something to look down on. That doesn’t discount the value of good people though. I value good people over ambitious people but theres no reason someone with good character can’t also be actively working on themselves over a matter of years. Everyone’s situation is different but in general, people are comfortable being losers and will hate on you because you’re working to better your life/other peoples lives because it makes them aware of their lack of progress or action which they don’t like. But instead of making a new plan of action, they just other-ify you and say you’re a hater or you’re arrogant or some other dismissive s*** to keep from holding themselves accountable.

When you’re that comfortable confident winner that know how to satisfy themself without needing others to fulfill that need, people resent you because they can’t control you.

No one is perfect and I say this as someone who has made mistakes and grown from them, I am still working on myself. But some people don’t care about working on themselves at all, even with support. Some people have been through too much s*** but other people have built their identity around their complacency.

Valentine

6mo

I see Dr. Longstroke still got it

Valentine

6mo

I see Dr. Longstroke still got it

Ron Mexico

6mo

What he got g?

Gelik

6mo

latinas aint attractive 2 me ima learn spanish so i can watch narcos mexico without subtitles

Valentine

6mo

We just gone ignore this one cro

KIDBlNO

6mo

How old are you OP

Ron Mexico

6mo

I'm a nigga from Detroit, I'd like to go too. Most of my girl's immediate family is here in the US but her aunts and stuff is over there wanting us to visit

Yeah, my guy down terribly but he needs that experience

huge choppie fan

6mo

this was a hilarious read as a latino myself

insertcoolnamehere

6mo

@op whole brand. He just no longer being a manwhore.

Bro in a whole relationship now and he still showing off these tendencies I….really really hope brodie in therapy.

And you don’t gotta reply to this my mans, Ima block you.

The irony is you been a pretty miserable fellow for the last 2 years. That e-bragging you doing is whatevers.

Smacked Voodoo

6mo

Keep your foul degenerate ass tf out my motherland