Just once. The amount of growth you undergo whether it's through going to the gym, not putting women on a pedestal, knowing you control your own happiness and no woman can take that away from you etc. is an important life lesson.

Do y'all agree?

fair

Does a girl checking "no" on my "do you like me?" note in elementary school count?

especially a post-break up heartbrake, that really matures you into a better person

Most men do

Nah. Just heal up and be smarter.

They do, this isn’t even something you have to force, the real problem is men need to be taught healthy coping mechanisms that don’t equate to hating and losing empathy for everything

once?

808s & heartbreak just clicked for me

yup

u can learn a lot from it, but i wouldn’t wish that on anyone

More than once tbh, that’s not enough to get you the coldness you need to be successful in the game

Yup

There’s a lot of things that men need to go through in order to understand the reality of life. Heartbreak, failure, loss etc these are all important stepping stones to gain perspective

Ya none of that happened to me afterwards

you guys are learning things after heartbreaks?

lowkey loser thread

duh nigga

its a canon event

where is she...

This

Heartbreak is inevitable but this is what really needs to take place

It’s a grounding experience for men but some guys are good. Why would you purposely put your partner thru pain? That’s psycho especially if you guys are happy

so melodramatic

That’s some awful dictatorial ass thinking like what if it’s a decent man and he’s good to his partner why would he have to go thru pain?

i was already sexy, driven, and buff before meeting her