to learn that girls ain't s***, just like men

ktt has this weird view that suffering makes them special

i've only broke my own heart so far

in modern day some men will mend a broken heart with video games and staying inside. which isn't healthy. so no not EVERY man needs this.

I’d expand it to all humans, tbh.
It’s unpleasant, but a good experience for you and your development

girls too which is why I cheat on them

Nah

That’s not true. Some people really find their soul mates out here, you’re gonna tell them that their soul mate ain’t s***?

Even this guy fumbled a bag once if you can believe that

Faulty thinking imo. The actual skill to learn is how to handle and move past adversity/setbacks.

when you realize every thread is a lowkey loser thread

@op you ain’t fooling nobody

pain is what makes you grow, literally and figuratively. it’s like going to the gym

no pain, no gain

Ya’ll give other people way too much power over your lives man. Just live bruh

I’m like suffering more often times just leads to more suffering and coping

Need to learn how to be happy with yourself and your life, not sitting around anticipating heartbreak and s*** so you can “grow” and trick yourself into thinking you’re okay lmao

So he can become a bitter machine and work harder like a real man!

That’s true but men already feel odee pain :/ all I’m saying is if your partner is a good man and checks off all the boxes and you choose to put him thru heartbreak, that’s crazy

You’re thinking of only one side in this situation tho. Some people recognize you are a great person and are just not ready to fully commit as they feel they would like to be equally as yolked or emotionally as available.

Most people can only find this through a personal journey outside of the dynamic y’all have built and don’t want to keep you waiting on what you need now (even if you say you’ll be patient with them and their growth), in case that journey takes them far away from you

oh we agree on that

but i don’t think @op is saying every man “deserves” to be heartbroken or anything like that. more that it’s a part of life that majority of folks will inevitably go through. once you learn from it and develop the necessary coping skills, you will be better for it

at least, that’s what i took away from it

that and what @op is saying pretty much goes hand in hand tho. how will you truly know how to handle and move past pain and adversity if you don’t go through it first?

main character syndrome

There's this mindset that someone has to break your heart or that you gotta get your first heartbreak out the way at an early age, and I don't necessarily agree with it because adversity comes in different forms, and Some people find their first love and grow old with them. My point is, if you internalize self-love and self-care, you won't have to "deal" with a heartbreak that leaves you raw and defeated, but hey, just my opinion

I didn't struggle with moving past my ex personally and it's all love.

…yes?