Jun 28, 2021
americanaop what job u got going on rn
Jun 28, 2021KalamariFromPartyMine still works bc I’m just using extreme couponing instead of refunding. Hmu if you need an order
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- Jun 28, 2021
- Jun 28, 2021·3 replies
WisdomOP marrying at 35 just to get cheated on
S*** don’t be working for niggas like OP because the foundation is bread crumbs
Built off buying trips and buying materialistic things in exchange for s***
You find a girl under 30 at 35 I promise you she f***in another dude
You think you... a software engineer.. is gonna be fun to marry?
Oh buddy I got some news for you
You’re just getting a shallow girl (not woman) that wants to marry you for the status/material things you can buy her. That s*** is a business arrangement not a family
- Jun 28, 2021
I get the overall point that men have an advantage when it comes to age. However as making it a standard at 35 doesn’t seem all that smart. Going after women is expensive and tiring, it’s also alot easier to remain focused when you don’t have to chase women for sex.
Jun 28, 2021Personally, I don’t plan on getting married and starting a family til I’m out of the army. My reason is I would hate to not be around my wife and kids and miss all those special days and moments and leave her and them alone.
- Jun 28, 2021·3 repliesWisdom
OP marrying at 35 just to get cheated on
S*** don’t be working for niggas like OP because the foundation is bread crumbs
Built off buying trips and buying materialistic things in exchange for s***
You find a girl under 30 at 35 I promise you she f***in another dude
You think you... a software engineer.. is gonna be fun to marry?
Oh buddy I got some news for you
Marriage isn’t about fun
And almost every girl no matter the age and no matter the status, is probably f***ing another dude. Even when you get married, your wife will prolly f*** another dude sometime during the marriage
- Jun 28, 2021·1 replySHAQUILLE
It’s almost as if men/women don’t pick their spouse solely on attraction and there’s other factors that play into it
Aight bruh
We obviously agree with each other idk why you acting like we don’t - Jun 28, 2021SHAQUILLE
You’re just getting a shallow girl (not woman) that wants to marry you for the status/material things you can buy her. That s*** is a business arrangement not a family
Exactly man
I don’t get why people don’t understand this
Jun 28, 2021KalamariFromPartyMarriage isn’t about fun
And almost every girl no matter the age and no matter the status, is probably f***ing another dude. Even when you get married, your wife will prolly f*** another dude sometime during the marriage
So this means I got a good 3 years to find someone to marry
No pressure
- Jun 28, 2021KalamariFromParty
Marriage isn’t about fun
And almost every girl no matter the age and no matter the status, is probably f***ing another dude. Even when you get married, your wife will prolly f*** another dude sometime during the marriage
Kevin Samuels and that fresh n fit podcast are rotting your brain man
Jun 28, 2021·1 replyBro you’re a weirdo after reading all that
At 23 I found someone I love and want to be with the rest of my life. I’ll be married at 25.
Let people live free and follow their own hearts and minds. You’re taking the fun of out of life.- Jun 28, 2021SHAQUILLE
You’re just getting a shallow girl (not woman) that wants to marry you for the status/material things you can buy her. That s*** is a business arrangement not a family
Technically, all marriages are business agreements.
- Jun 28, 2021KalamariFromParty
Aight bruh
We obviously agree with each other idk why you acting like we don’tWe don’t. Like no s*** men and women get less attractive as they get older. That doesn’t mean that 35+ men want to marry 21 year olds
- Jun 28, 2021·1 replySHAQUILLE
You’re just getting a shallow girl (not woman) that wants to marry you for the status/material things you can buy her. That s*** is a business arrangement not a family
The Only reason a woman will ever stay with you is because of what they think you can do for them
If you know how to choose the right women (the older you get the better you are at discerning that), then you will be able to pick the ones that don’t want you for material things but want you for security and provisioning
Which is fine
If you think women stay with you bc they love you, you need to pay more attention. Their love for you only goes as far as what they believe you can do for them (or their children)
- Jun 28, 2021KalamariFromParty
Unless you have decided that your life is not going to get any better, getting married (To a woman) before 35 is just shooting Yourself in the foot
You are cutting yourself off from the potential plethora of options that start to open up to you
A man’s 35 is like a woman’s 21-23That age is when you are the “hottest” you will ever be. It is your peak, if you average out all the traits that make you attractive to women. Sure you may feel a tad “old” but first off women generally like older guys. But you also will have your life together and if you take care of yourself you can be in really great shape. Financially, you will most likely be stable, and/or starting to hit big strides in making money (getting promotions, starting your own business, etc)
And you if you can stay non married up until this point (notice I didn’t say single), then you will have built up experience of seducing, loving, breaking up with & just overall dealing with women. So your radar for who a good girl is will be at its best, and you will be able to spot BS from a mile away. And bc you have plenty of options, if you get BS from one girl instead of putting up with it you will just move on to the next (vs in your 20s you put up with women’s BS more bc you have less options to choose from) And women like men that have experience as well
All of these things are what’s going to make you be in your prime. So when you are in your prime is when you have the most leverage to negotiate for the best possible contract/option
Conversely, a woman’s best time to get married is around 21-23 but most of them wait until they are out of their prime and then “settle down” because they decide to just settle for whatever options they have left. Bc now that they are 30, there are much less men willing to date & eventually marry her then there were when she was 23
The difference with men is that most of them get married BEFORE their prime so they are literally cutting themselves off from the best options they have available before they even know those options existwont lie you do make some good ass pts both for men an women but it depends on each person sometimes they give in an dont wanna wait to find another person both men an women they dont wanna go through searching through dating apps or going out to find another bf/gf so they settle, ill speak for myself saying i am over 30 and ya i wanna get a gf who has common interests so when we date things are more fun to do etc
- Jun 28, 2021
You have too many assumptions of women
- Jun 28, 2021·1 replyKalamariFromParty
The Only reason a woman will ever stay with you is because of what they think you can do for them
If you know how to choose the right women (the older you get the better you are at discerning that), then you will be able to pick the ones that don’t want you for material things but want you for security and provisioning
Which is fine
If you think women stay with you bc they love you, you need to pay more attention. Their love for you only goes as far as what they believe you can do for them (or their children)
“you will be able to pick the ones that don’t want you for material things but want you for security and provisioning”
This is the same thing. You just dressed it up differently
Jun 28, 2021Don’t be in peoples business like that
- Jun 28, 2021·1 reply
By virtue of that your only options are gonna be the women that actually fit your assumptions. Any who don’t will sniff out this stuff right away and never give you a chance because of your warped view.
Jun 28, 2021I found a good girl whose hot, was a virgin before I met her, makes money, and allows me to go out all the time so I predict I will be married to her around 30. Still got years to go though :
- Jun 28, 2021
This philosophy is so depressing and it’s sad lot of young men think like this
- Jun 28, 2021·1 replyBirdie
Bro you’re a weirdo after reading all that
At 23 I found someone I love and want to be with the rest of my life. I’ll be married at 25.
Let people live free and follow their own hearts and minds. You’re taking the fun of out of life.How is your one example, that hasn’t even played out yet, going to trump the millions of people that have been divorced or just generally unhappy with their marriage?
I’m not saying it’s not possible
I’m just talking about probabilities and sexual market value
Do you yourself believe that you will be essentially the same person you are now at 35, except basically better at everything? If the 30-35 year old you met your girl at the same time the young you met your girl, she probably would’ve ended up marrying him instead
- Jun 28, 2021Birdie
By virtue of that your only options are gonna be the women that actually fit your assumptions. Any who don’t will sniff out this stuff right away and never give you a chance because of your warped view.
What is warped??
- Jun 28, 2021
