Classic no avy energy

Wasnt you married?

Idk if anyone has asked this already but why does it take you so long to realize that they’re awful people?

That seems like a bigger issue that you being shallow which is debatable since you aren't willing to overlook those negative qualities, unless

Reprogramming the brain takes time and patience, keep asking yourself difficult questions and answering them honestly, ktt cant help with that

Wishing you truth and happiness, you’ll get there if you really want it

surprising

True but the more models I date the more I realize none of them are wifey material

It reminds me of the Jimmy Soul song

"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you"

No but I did date someone who was married just separated

But thats an assumption. Everyone has a type. U shouldnt bang urself up just for having a type. I say maybe u find a cool girl whos also attractive. Theyre out there.

I feel like it's a combination of the "honeymoon phase" as well as them putting on an act at the beginning

I remember reading something that basically said a guy/girl can only pretend to be a good person for about 3-6 months into a relationship and then they eventually show their true colors

Also you don't really know someone until you either go on vacation with them / get a pet together / move in and live together and that's when you find out who they truly are

I know KTT can't help with this I was just wondering if anyone else can relate to this and if they had any personal stories and experiences to share

Thanks so much bro I really appreciate it!!

LOL the Ariana tea smiley

what went wrong then?

The issue is my "type" is so extreme that I wouldn't even date someone like Kylie Jenner because she isn't pretty enough to me even though she's a billionaire

There are so many girls in NYC but the problem is I'm extremely picky and really wish I wasn't

It's a very long story that I don't want to relive but even though I technically was the one who broke up with her and I made the mistake of giving up on the relationship so easily

Will go down as my biggest life regret

Time heals all wounds. Youll change as u grow and that will change ur perspective. Tbh ion think anything will fix this overnight besides maybe ketamine or dmt

might explore more

op I think you should read some Jung

For sure but unfortunately over the years I feel as though I've become more and more superficial

I'm so straight edge when it comes to d****/alcohol and I have a highly additive type personality so I'm afraid that I'd get hooked on K

Ironically the 3 prettiest girls I met in 2024 were all from bible study groups

1 of them I fumbled and 1 of them was into me until she got serious with her current boyfriend

Do you have a specific book recommendation

amazon.com/Lying-Heavenly-Woman-Understanding-Integrating/dp/0062510665

Thanks bro!! Gonna order it right now

Keep trying

Yea nah i was kinda joking there i honestly dont recommend any d**** for any mental issues if u dont need them

But this is the beginning of a change for u. U identified a problem, now u will fix it consciously or subconsciously as long as u stay motivated

I figured you were half joking but I know some people who are looking for a reset always talk about going on an ayahuasca trip and stuff like that

For sure and thanks for the positive words bro!!

hella wack