Just gotta trust the process and stay diligent man, all that speculative riff raff is nothing till it’s true

The truth of the matter to every relationship issue on this site is a lot of yall on this website know deep down if yall was in a twilight zone where you could date yourself, most of yall would reject ya damn self in a heartbeat.

I wouldn’t date myself cause I’m a man but I would date the female equivalent of myself in looks/personality

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Twilight zone implies that as a possibility

And said “most of yall” as some folks on the forum come across as genuine ppl that dont see the other gender as talking points of a podcast

fr. dudes just telling on themselves.

OP is insecure. Sad to see it!

Controversial take but if she has a big following/gets a lot of attention on social media and has had a lot of partners for her age bracket, shes gonna cheat

Now when you say heard are you saying that you heard real life stories from enough of a percentage of women in the western society to make such a general statement?

Niggas need to have a morning routine where you go to a mirror and instead of morning affirmations you repeat “twitter is not a real place” to yourself.

Who hurt you OP, soon to be 9 years going strong, mid 20s, and i even asked her bluntly before. She has 0 interest in f***ing somebody else. And i know there’s loads of women like her.

Sometimes it’s just bad luck, but i do believe you’re kinda right about the “you know upfront if she’s gonna cheat”. That’s why it’s important to vet somebody for a longer period. Get to know her morals, her amount of discipline, personality etc before making things official

As a huge Drake fan niggas been cheating since forever let a b**** cheat a lil bit every now and then who cares

bet // 15 minutes

Sound like a huge future fan

my fellow cozy // these niggas will kill you in delusion over they b****

@WRU we need another addition to #thelist

You ever met one lol?

Users on this site ain't GOAT like you big bro

Yes I just said I knew a few

there was this really fine girl , like... drop dead gorgeous

and i had been sending lil dms here and there for months out (they say that s*** dont work, it really just depend) // we had never really had no intense or in depth convo just me sayin she fine she might like it or say thank you or some, aka the "im just saying thank you" s***.

saying that to say, people who tell you "im just saying thank you"...

anyway , one day im close to where she stay and I dm her just to shoot that shot , not really even thinking its gon go in // the night goes by it's like 2 am, she dm me talkin bout she just in her crib studying but i can come kick it while she study

im like bet, nigga drunk and just getting in from the kickbacks of the night

i have my niggas walk with me over to her crib make sure its not a set up, idk if this tmi or what but im just layin out the details

she open her door, fine af, chillin with no make up on, cool right.

im so unsure of whats goin on, she pretty much when i enter in tell me something bout how her boyfriend did this and this for her and duh duh duh duh duh, so when she says that im thinking "oh, she literally just tryna chill. ok " BECAUSE I AM A RESPECTABLE MAN AND I ACTUALLY DO NOT CONDONE CHEATING NOR HAVE I EVER CHEATED.
so the whole time im just chillin bro, lowkey fallin asleep, playin my role as a friend, genuinely.

ima save this one detail but we go somewhere and she do a full outfit change to go somewhere at 3 am

we come back, im literally just chillin. she starts cooking, for both of us.

I HAVE MADE NO MOVES

she disappears and reappears in this fye ass like purple fuzzy robe...

im like...oh... ima keep it chill..

im literally laying on the couch i dont even remember how long, making no moves and lowkey falling asleep, next thing i know shes talked her way into cuddling with me and is laying on me on this couch,

next thing i know a titty pop out the robe

I do what im sposed to do. realistically, nobody resisting this much with a full b*** layin on they lip.

next thing i know she lead me to her room, im like.. i thought she said she had a nigga

she tryna finish, she wanna f***, bet

we start f***in, she get her nut, i ask for head shawtie said

AND I QUOTE

"i cant give you head, that's cheating" ...

she pretty much is like only letting me do backshots she wont let me lay on her bed because

AND I QUOTE

"you can't lay on my bed, i dont want it to smell like cologne my boyfriend finna be here in a couple of hours"

I pretty much steal some of her face wash, and leave go back to my niggas crib heartbroken. whole incident broke my mental image of certain people.

shawtie was SO fine, like the type of fine that dont get down like that.

like I really thought I was bout to bag that start a family or something nigga was dreamin

anyway

i dont think her and that boyfriend ever broke up

and now she has a family, married .

both of them have high paying jobs and good degrees .

she didnt even seem like the type to do some like that, let alone let a nigga hit the first time meeting in person.

but thats how it works, more times than not.

As a huge Drake fan my girl and I deleted our socials years ago, great decision, been together 10 years this month

Grown ass man