Never liked Vampire Weekend, now this is a cancellation I can get behind!

If anybody disagrees with me in this thread I am gonna ask the mods to mute them.
I don't care that almost every country is on lockdown and that being muted on this site could cause someone to hurt them self, because it might be there only social contact in these hard days.
But if people don't agree with me, then I can't tolerate them and they do not deserve to have a voice in a discussion!
I fight the freedom and open minded people who 100 % agrees with me!!

lmaooo

there aren't enough prisons in the world for it to be rape everytime drunk people have sex. also tons of women would be in prison based on this.

now let me get back to listening to Contra & MVOTC

what happened to her body her choice?

F*** off

so Chrissy Teigen was groomed? (she was a dancer on the set of a John Legend video and they f***ed the day they met). Barack Obama was groomed? (Michelle was his mentor at the law firm Barack worked at). Monica Lewinsky was groomed (she actually was groomed). But people have agency. Women have agency. Women are attracted to successful men. Success usually comes with age. Also by this logic, artists shouldn't be able to date fans bc power dynamic. Although increasingly the power dynamic runs both ways since someone can destroy you with an allegation

wait is this fr?

so 18 year olds shouldn't be able to get abortions? or make medical decisions? lol

how old is ok?

she was 17?

How comes there is nothing of this in the media?

there is no debate. s***, anna nicole smith married a f***ing 89 year old when she was 26

should rich people be able to date / marry poor people? power dynamic and all. would be a great way to perpetuate income inequality, not a bad idea

y'all be forgetting that it takes 2 people to be in a relationship. 18 year olds want to date 30 year olds just as much as 30 year olds want to date 18 year olds. half the people who'd be against this rule would be women lol. the main people who would be pushing this legislation are losers and old / ugly women. everyone else, including attractive / young women would be opposed. also half the f***ing people in congress probably have an age gap lol. men often marry for looks, women often marry for stability

No avy ass b****

hope this aint true

but also not gonna assume that its about him until thats clarified esp since we dont even know that they dated

also gonna put unconfirmed in the title given that this is entirely based on assumption rather than an actual accusation

So the following people are sociopaths: Gabrielle Union (9 years older than her husband), Shakira (10 years older), Priyanka Chopra (10 years), Kourtney Kardashian (14 years), Jada Pinkett Smith (21 year age difference with August Alsina), Lisa Bonet (12 years), JLo (18 years), Demi Moore (16 years older than Ashton Kutcher)

And so on. To be fair, many of them are indeed sociopaths, but that's because celebrities are often f***ed in the head, not because they dated men younger than they are

spend some time in the real world and get out of tumblr-brain. also this is such a navel gazing, America-centric view of the world. In Africa and India and some other parts of the world, age gaps are common

"The terms that so many stories of sexual assault are forced into, and the demands placed on victims and abusers to look and act in a recognizable way, make the thought of naming my abuser in public seem like something that would only cause me more pain. So does the possibility of any self-appointed vigilantes attempting to do so on my behalf. The notion of monitoring a mob I didn’t ask for sounds exhausting, whether this mob is coming for his head or mine. The awareness that my experience would be transmuted into a fascination with his moral character makes me want to get offline forever. It is easy to imagine a world where audiences’ infatuation with fame takes priority over a survivor’s needs."

The issue here isn't really his age or her age. It's that he ignored her needs, concerns, and coerced her to have s***wrongfully.

People of differing ages can have healthy relationships but that requires a healthy couple.

Half this thread is people arguing over 17 vs. 18 when people should legit be focused on the fact the guy potentially raped her.

so... not her body her choice? we should police who adult women are allowed to date? ok Taliban