You’re either naturally funny or you aren’t. There’s no magic trick to being funny. You just gotta have it in you. If you don’t, it’ll come off as try hard.

people say I'm funny I don't try to be funny I feel like they are laughing at me it makes me self conscious

Use any of these phrases
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Sussy
Baka
Among us
Impostor
Big chungus

If you have to ask how to be funny you’re not going to be funny. Humor is subjective person to person. 80% of the women I’ve dated thought I was hilarious despite not being naturally funny, just awkward but in my comfort zone I could and still make jokes they find funny. The other 20% hated my humor. Within friend groups same ratio more or less. There’s always going to be the select few who don’t find you funny and that’s okay. Just gotta go with the flow and be self aware when you’re doing too much