A real Bible Study attendee would never engage in such a conflict and would instead be friendly/seek to forgive you.
You were right OP
Go to the wedding and interrupt the best man’s toast in front of everyone and confront him about y’all issues
he still got the e-vite from before they stopped being friends & the itinerary is still there
he finna call his boy when he's at the airport
' oh we boarding, actually let me call this dude
........
pick up man, damn
babe, why this nigga DaeHan calling? i thought you took him off the attendee list?
damn i forgot to do it baby
you gon let him come and stink up our wedding with his non christian ass
heaven nah, i'll take care of this lil nigga right now
ayo DaeHan why you calling now, we ain't spoke in months? it's the eve of my wedding, i tried to make amends? you ain't even text me
yeah i made a KTT2 thread about it and they said i was soft like charmin so i decided to come and apologise
i just boarded the plane now fam, we gucci
got a free business class upgrade too
well i just logged onto the guest list and took your heathen ass off the list
word? i'm already on the plane fam, c'mon man please
should've thought about that before you didn't reply to my texts and calls for months, no mini quiche & virgin daiquiris for you f**k nigga
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howling
Lol I have enough friends.
You really think I should still go?
you have a horrible attitude. you cut off a good friend for some bullshit ass reason and get mad when he doesnt come groveling back to you? you need more humility and a reality check
as for whether u should go, its simple, youve already displayed a pattern of sus behavior by avoiding your friend so you might as well continue down that path and just not go. you decided you are done with him, right? other wise you would have accepted his attempts to reconcile
Why would you have a problem being demoted? You’re the one that’s been actively ignoring him. Even if you weren’t demoted you don’t f*** with him so why even attend lol
Also be a man and reach out to him and see what your role in the wedding is, it’s one of the biggest days of his life and you’ve known one another for a long time don’t be a b**** because he made a joke
@op guy i worked with for more then 10 years was getting married and he said my invitation was in the mail i knew he was bs so dont be upset friends come and go its a part of life
It sounds like you guys are at odds lifestyle wise too. At a certain point adults can’t be compatible based on that or it causes tensions
How is my attitude horrible if he was disrespectful towards me for no reason and is the one who told me that he would cut me off?
It sounds like you guys are at odds lifestyle wise too. At a certain point adults can’t be compatible based on that or it causes tensions
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joking aside, just go man even if you're not groomsmen Dont hold hate in your heart especially if you were best friends, the problem aint even that serious
he still got the e-vite from before they stopped being friends & the itinerary is still there
he finna call his boy when he's at the airport
' oh we boarding, actually let me call this dude
........
pick up man, damn
babe, why this nigga DaeHan calling? i thought you took him off the attendee list?
damn i forgot to do it baby
you gon let him come and stink up our wedding with his non christian ass
heaven nah, i'll take care of this lil nigga right now
ayo DaeHan why you calling now, we ain't spoke in months? it's the eve of my wedding, i tried to make amends? you ain't even text me
yeah i made a KTT2 thread about it and they said i was soft like charmin so i decided to come and apologise
i just boarded the plane now fam, we gucci
got a free business class upgrade too
well i just logged onto the guest list and took your heathen ass off the list
word? i'm already on the plane fam, c'mon man please
should've thought about that before you didn't reply to my texts and calls for months, no mini quiche & virgin daiquiris for you f**k nigga
'
he still got the e-vite from before they stopped being friends & the itinerary is still there
he finna call his boy when he's at the airport
' oh we boarding, actually let me call this dude
........
pick up man, damn
babe, why this nigga DaeHan calling? i thought you took him off the attendee list?
damn i forgot to do it baby
you gon let him come and stink up our wedding with his non christian ass
heaven nah, i'll take care of this lil nigga right now
ayo DaeHan why you calling now, we ain't spoke in months? it's the eve of my wedding, i tried to make amends? you ain't even text me
yeah i made a KTT2 thread about it and they said i was soft like charmin so i decided to come and apologise
i just boarded the plane now fam, we gucci
got a free business class upgrade too
well i just logged onto the guest list and took your heathen ass off the list
word? i'm already on the plane fam, c'mon man please
should've thought about that before you didn't reply to my texts and calls for months, no mini quiche & virgin daiquiris for you f**k nigga
'
How is my attitude horrible if he was disrespectful towards me for no reason and is the one who told me that he would cut me off?
They are right actually, why is it a dilemma all of sudden, it sounds like you are overly sensitive or narcissistic op, you can't always be the victim. Don't go and its OK, he's got his whole wedding to focus on and you have your whole life, fair's fair
Basically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years
He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)
He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful
I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged
He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.
He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin
I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"
My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."
I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"
His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"
After that I was done
damn yea f*** that guy
praying he and his dumb b**** that don't even believe in Christ divorce by September
mf sounds like a grade a a******
He tried to make amends and you were acting like a b**** now you're whining you won't be in a wedding
you can't belittle someone and downplay their feelings then walk it back later and just expect the other person to be so receiving. f*** that guy