he still got the e-vite from before they stopped being friends & the itinerary is still there
he finna call his boy when he's at the airport
' oh we boarding, actually let me call this dude
........
pick up man, damn
babe, why this nigga DaeHan calling? i thought you took him off the attendee list?
damn i forgot to do it baby
you gon let him come and stink up our wedding with his non christian ass
heaven nah, i'll take care of this lil nigga right now
ayo DaeHan why you calling now, we ain't spoke in months? it's the eve of my wedding, i tried to make amends? you ain't even text me
yeah i made a KTT2 thread about it and they said i was soft like charmin so i decided to come and apologise
i just boarded the plane now fam, we gucci
got a free business class upgrade too
well i just logged onto the guest list and took your heathen ass off the list
word? i'm already on the plane fam, c'mon man please
should've thought about that before you didn't reply to my texts and calls for months, no mini quiche & virgin daiquiris for you f**k nigga
'
when the movie coming out
he still got the e-vite from before they stopped being friends & the itinerary is still there
he finna call his boy when he's at the airport
' oh we boarding, actually let me call this dude
........
pick up man, damn
babe, why this nigga DaeHan calling? i thought you took him off the attendee list?
damn i forgot to do it baby
you gon let him come and stink up our wedding with his non christian ass
heaven nah, i'll take care of this lil nigga right now
ayo DaeHan why you calling now, we ain't spoke in months? it's the eve of my wedding, i tried to make amends? you ain't even text me
yeah i made a KTT2 thread about it and they said i was soft like charmin so i decided to come and apologise
i just boarded the plane now fam, we gucci
got a free business class upgrade too
well i just logged onto the guest list and took your heathen ass off the list
word? i'm already on the plane fam, c'mon man please
should've thought about that before you didn't reply to my texts and calls for months, no mini quiche & virgin daiquiris for you f**k nigga
'
lmfaooo
My former best friend didn't even invite me or tell me he was getting married. I had to find out from another in our friend circle AFTER he came back from the Bahamas for the wedding and showed me pictures. I just decided then and there "F*ck em." and decided to move on with life 🤷🏾♂️
My former best friend didn't even invite me or tell me he was getting married. I had to find out from another in our friend circle AFTER he came back from the Bahamas for the wedding and showed me pictures. I just decided then and there "F*ck em." and decided to move on with life 🤷🏾♂️
would you have gone if you knew it was in bahamas?
would you have gone if you knew it was in bahamas?
I would have gone if I was invited in general
Go fight him at the wedding, it's the only way to make things right
I would have gone if I was invited in general
i had two friends get married last year. Their initial plan was a wedding out the country that was gonna be like a couple months after each other.
lol them niggas would not have seen me and I was a groomsman
Basically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years
He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)
He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful
I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged
He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.
He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin
I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"
My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."
I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"
His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"
After that I was done
i was gonna say that you should still go but he sounds like a terrible human being. keep
i had two friends get married last year. Their initial plan was a wedding out the country that was gonna be like a couple months after each other.
lol them niggas would not have seen me and I was a groomsman
Atleast you knew a wedding was going down and had a choice. I didn't even get a DM, text, facebook message, nothing. He didn't even tell the one friend he did invite to pass the message along to me to get in contact 🤣🤣
i was gonna say that you should still go but he sounds like a terrible human being. keep
He should go to the reception, get a lame gift (or nothing at all), eat the good food, and dip.
Lol I have enough friends.
You really think I should still go?
bro it’s a wedding there the most fun just go. i went to my enemy’s wedding and we pieced it up there
bro it’s a wedding there the most fun just go. i went to my enemy’s wedding and we pieced it up there
*and you 2 pieced him at the altar
blud really wants to get married to this dude the way he types whole harvard essays about him
god forbid a nigga just vent
Basically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years
He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)
He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful
I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged
He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.
He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin'
I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"
My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."
I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"
His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"
After that I was done
I don’t know yall history so it’s easy for me to say behind a screen. But if this was a pattern of behavior like you say and not a one off thing, then ditch him. Move on from the friendship.
If you go to the wedding and let it slide without talking about it, you basically just letting him know that it’s cool to disrespect you like that and you’ll still be there. Not only did he disrespect you but he also disrespected your girl, f*** that
joking aside, just go man even if you're not groomsmen Dont hold hate in your heart especially if you were best friends, the problem aint even that serious
Tbh this true too. It’s just group chat bs. Has he said s*** like this to your face @op ?
Basically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years
He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)
He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful
I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged
He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.
He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin'
I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"
My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."
I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"
His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"
After that I was done
talking s*** like this then going to bible study
you can't belittle someone and downplay their feelings then walk it back later and just expect the other person to be so receiving. f*** that guy
This is what I'm saying!
I don't HAVE to accept his apology on his terms just because he apologized.
He should go to the reception, get a lame gift (or nothing at all), eat the good food, and dip.
It's a destination wedding.
I'm in Michigan and he's in Texas.
Tbh this true too. It’s just group chat bs. Has he said s*** like this to your face @op ?
Nah this was in the group chat. But like I said, its been a constant pattern of behavior for years
my current best friend is getting married and i’m not a groomsman idc
na this would lowkey piss me off unless like its all brothers and cousins or some s***