Jun 5, 2023·3 repliesLIL INTRO VERTF*** that miserable life. Rather have no kids and enjoy my short time on earth as best as I can. I have enough nephews to take care of anyway
It's hard to find things to do with as much meaning as raising children
Jun 5, 2023Can't wait for my kid to get here
Jun 5, 2023·1 replyHurdle33 dogIt's hard to find things to do with as much meaning as raising children
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- Jun 5, 2023·1 replyHurdle33 dog
It's hard to find things to do with as much meaning as raising children
Kinda agree, still don't wanna do it tho
Would rather, write books, record songs, paint, travel, being single and childrenless just seem more fun and rewarding (to me personally) - Jun 5, 2023LIL INTRO VERT
Kinda agree, still don't wanna do it tho
Would rather, write books, record songs, paint, travel, being single and childrenless just seem more fun and rewarding (to me personally)Agree
Jun 5, 2023
A Mad Ass Nigga“ Don't choose to make your life that much more difficult if all you're going to do is use it as a crutch and an excuse to complain is my point lol”
You can literally say this about anything lol. I’d rather see people keep it 100 about the ups and downs than to cap like parenting is a breeze 24/7 cause in reality, it’s really not a walk in the park.
Facts main reason why I don’t want kids right now people keeping it Real with how hard it is to raise another human being S***s crazy
Jun 5, 2023·1 reply
mentalcase420Thoughts?
I'm happy for all my friends/family who have children but like...why CHOOSE to have 2-4 kids back to back only when the result is you always complaining on social media and to whoever will listen about how stressful and difficult it is financially, mentally, emotionally and how you never have time for anything anymore because you're either taking care of them or working your ass off to afford to take care of them..."it's worth the sacrifice when I look at their faces" then stop b****ing about it lol ppl thinking those tax write offs worth all the extra stress and bullshit I guess when nobody told y'all you had to build a whole army
not everyone I know is like that of course but it's like why choose to give yourself extra stress and annoyances only to turn around and complain about it nonstop...at this time I know that's not something I want so I simply do not have kids
am I the a****** or is this a reasonable take?thoughts ? i mean my immediate visceral response to your question is that people are not having kids with the sole intent of doing what you apparently think they are
- Jun 5, 2023·1 reply
plantsnah rt if i wanted to hear a b**** moan i'd load up xnxx
this is an extremely sad statement coming from a married man bro ,
Jun 5, 2023·3 repliesthere will come a time in your life when your parents are dead and all your friends have families of their own. what then? you will be alone no past no future. more wine and anime? maybe another trip will fill the void. i pray for you
Jun 5, 2023OP is clearly still using facebook chronically
Jun 5, 2023Faithcap
Mind sharing?
Jun 5, 2023Hurdle33 dogIt's hard to find things to do with as much meaning as raising children
lmao
- Jun 5, 2023
kids suck
- plants 🌻Jun 5, 2023·1 replyiWorship engels
this is an extremely sad statement coming from a married man bro ,
boohoo b****
mishima 😈Jun 5, 2023plantsnah rt if i wanted to hear a b**** moan i'd load up xnxx
You better have been staying off that ‘nography
Jun 5, 2023it's all about getting it squared away before you have kids. my one coworker used to complain all the time about his kids we deadass had to tell him to chill cause it was so constant.
I think it helps if you have a really good family support system cause ik him and his wife works and that is the cause of a ton of issues, ideally a grandma can step in in these situations, or ideally, the husband has a very solid paternity leave as well as job that grants a good amount of time at home and the wife raises the kid until it is old enough to no longer need sun-up to sun-down attention
Jun 5, 2023·2 repliespeople gonna find anything to complain about
- Jun 5, 2023
I'm gay
- Jun 5, 2023Classique
people gonna find anything to complain about
Jun 5, 2023Had a coworker who had 8 kids by 25. was coming to work on a bus pregnant with a 9th kid.
- Jun 5, 2023·1 replyA Mad Ass Nigga
“ Don't choose to make your life that much more difficult if all you're going to do is use it as a crutch and an excuse to complain is my point lol”
You can literally say this about anything lol. I’d rather see people keep it 100 about the ups and downs than to cap like parenting is a breeze 24/7 cause in reality, it’s really not a walk in the park.
You get a harder job you don't like bc it pays more you can always leave if it gets to be too much...I suppose you could leave your kids too but then you're a piece of s***
- Jun 5, 2023Classique
people gonna find anything to complain about
Complain to other people with kids then who can relate...talking about it to ppl without kids means nothing "you know I never thought I'd be someone who could change a diaper but even in messy situations the love for my kids makes it worth it" lol like the f*** is someone without a kid supposed to say to that? "Yeah every time I clean my cats litter box I feel the same way"
Jun 5, 2023·1 replyI’d rather them complain and stay with the kids than be a deadbeat parent
does it really matter ppl complain about less pointless s*** 24/7
- Jun 5, 2023iWorship engels
thoughts ? i mean my immediate visceral response to your question is that people are not having kids with the sole intent of doing what you apparently think they are
I never implied there was a sole intent to having kids lol I mentioned the tax write off thing as a perk to having kids but wasn't implying everyone has kids for that reason alone
Also never implied having kids in general is stupid or bad I definitely understand the positives to making a family...just quit complaining about it so much to people who can't relate bc they chose to not have children lol same goes for ppl who constantly b**** about their job everyday instead of working on finding something they Halfway enjoy and are treated better at