I’d rather them complain and stay with the kids than be a deadbeat parent
does it really matter ppl complain about less pointless s*** 24/7
I'm not sure why people are getting defensive lol I just wanted opinions because I really just don't understand why ppl have more than one kid just to complain about how hard it is to juggle everything like they didn't know that'd be the case lol yall sat down and discussed how it would change things right? Instead every time I'm around them I gotta hear about all the laundry and cleaning they constantly have to do smh
I'm not sure why people are getting defensive lol I just wanted opinions because I really just don't understand why ppl have more than one kid just to complain about how hard it is to juggle everything like they didn't know that'd be the case lol yall sat down and discussed how it would change things right? Instead every time I'm around them I gotta hear about all the laundry and cleaning they constantly have to do smh
nigga that is my opinion. just because I disagree doesn’t mean its defensive lmao
nigga that is my opinion. just because I disagree doesn’t mean its defensive lmao
I just get tired of hearing about s***ty diapers and other dumb s*** lol I suppose I should be grateful those friends still keep in touch vs others that just have kids and f*** off entirely
Didn't mean to ruffle feathers or offend anyone I get that it's challenging being a parent...my general point is ppl without kids don't wanna hear about that s*** all the time and it seems some ppl would be happier if they didn't make the choice to have so damn many of them
Guess I'm the a******
You get a harder job you don't like bc it pays more you can always leave if it gets to be too much...I suppose you could leave your kids too but then you're a piece of s***
Some people can’t afford to leave that high paying job so they thug it out. And they have every right to complain about that job. You’re complaining about people complaining about real life s***. You’d rather them sell you a fairy tale story about how parenting is so easy? Some of you just hate how things work in reality and just wanna live in some lala fantasy world lol.
I just get tired of hearing about s***ty diapers and other dumb s*** lol I suppose I should be grateful those friends still keep in touch vs others that just have kids and f*** off entirely
Didn't mean to ruffle feathers or offend anyone I get that it's challenging being a parent...my general point is ppl without kids don't wanna hear about that s*** all the time and it seems some ppl would be happier if they didn't make the choice to have so damn many of them
Guess I'm the a******
except every parent doesn’t do that
you just projected your entire social group and your twitter feed on everyone lol
except every parent doesn’t do that
you just projected your entire social group and your twitter feed on everyone lol
I never said every parent does that so again you're twisting my words
Some people can’t afford to leave that high paying job so they thug it out. And they have every right to complain about that job. You’re complaining about people complaining about real life s***. You’d rather them sell you a fairy tale story about how parenting is so easy? Some of you just hate how things work in reality and just wanna live in some lala fantasy world lol.
I'd rather talk about s*** other than laundry and cleaning and s***ty diapers is all and would rather not have to listen to a bunch of screaming crying kids when I see my friends
Apparently I struck a nerve though my bad
Again didn't mean to offend or upset any parents who apparently complain a lot just explaining how it comes across to those without kids
My mom thinks she’s the biggest martyr on earth despite choosing most of her struggles
It’s true
Prly don't need to lol I see it on their faces
It’s not worth it, I got 2nd hand stress and depression just reading the posts up there
It’s not worth it, I got 2nd hand stress and depression just reading the posts up there
How I been feeling lol like after a stressful week of work the last thing I wanna talk about is all the s*** that stressed me out that week...hanging with friends is supposed to be fun not a constant vent fest...and I'm not even saying don't vent at all but when that's all it ever is anymore its kind of a bummer
Thoughts?
I'm happy for all my friends/family who have children but like...why CHOOSE to have 2-4 kids back to back only when the result is you always complaining on social media and to whoever will listen about how stressful and difficult it is financially, mentally, emotionally and how you never have time for anything anymore because you're either taking care of them or working your ass off to afford to take care of them..."it's worth the sacrifice when I look at their faces" then stop b****ing about it lol ppl thinking those tax write offs worth all the extra stress and bullshit I guess when nobody told y'all you had to build a whole army
not everyone I know is like that of course but it's like why choose to give yourself extra stress and annoyances only to turn around and complain about it nonstop...at this time I know that's not something I want so I simply do not have kids am I the a****** or is this a reasonable take?
It's a dumb take only because you don't have the experience as a parent to fully understand
People need to quit b****ing in general as a whole, not just this very niche demographic.
How I been feeling lol like after a stressful week of work the last thing I wanna talk about is all the s*** that stressed me out that week...hanging with friends is supposed to be fun not a constant vent fest...and I'm not even saying don't vent at all but when that's all it ever is anymore its kind of a bummer
You need childless friends bro.
Easier said than done tho
boohoo b****
how am i a b****
brother if i was married and i wanted to hear a b**** moan i would instruct my shawdy to slob on my knob , squeeze on my butt , lick on my nuts , and bury my wenis where the sun doesn't shine u dig warra f*** i'm saying bih
step your game up because it sounds to me like she may be sizing up her options and planning an escape route my Nigga
Parents with like 4-5 kids before 40 are weird as f*** to me
40s like the oldest age you can really even have a baby lol
40s like the oldest age you can really even have a baby lol
Great age to have your 5th kid then wouldn’t you say?
how am i a b****
brother if i was married and i wanted to hear a b**** moan i would instruct my shawdy to slob on my knob , squeeze on my butt , lick on my nuts , and bury my wenis where the sun doesn't shine u dig warra f*** i'm saying bih
step your game up because it sounds to me like she may be sizing up her options and planning an escape route my Nigga
serious question, have you heard of a joke before?
serious question, have you heard of a joke before?
that last 4 letter word you used , could you put it in a sentence ? not familiar with it at all
that last 4 letter word you used , could you put it in a sentence ? not familiar with it at all
yeah its ur life buddy
there will come a time in your life when your parents are dead and all your friends have families of their own. what then? you will be alone no past no future. more wine and anime? maybe another trip will fill the void. i pray for you
Just because you have a family doesn’t mean they will take care of you when you are old. Lots of kids abandon their elders when they grown up
there will come a time in your life when your parents are dead and all your friends have families of their own. what then? you will be alone no past no future. more wine and anime? maybe another trip will fill the void. i pray for you
having kids just to fill a void is insane