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    Damn I miss f***ing random hoes 😭 theres been so many different opportunities while I’ve been in my relationship where women at my job or in random places have showed interest in me but I didn’t pursue anything out of love and respect for my girl. I didn’t want to hurt her and damage her further knowing the experiences she’s been through previously. It’s like since I been with my girl the amount of women showing interest in me has exploded smh 😭 I have a lot of self control no f***ing cap. Like not even on some flexing s*** it’s just really getting to me here and there because I’m the type of person who used to like hookup with a different chick every couple weeks and never let the opportunity to slide pass me by so being in this long term relationship and not capitalizing on these random interactions with women who are showing me they’re with it is kind of a foreign feeling for me

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    I understand, I recommend you allow yourself a cheat day where you indulge in one sneaky link per week while being faithful the rest of the time. Perfectionism is the enemy of growth

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    DR LONGSTROKE
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    Damn I miss f***ing random hoes 😭 theres been so many different opportunities while I’ve been in my relationship where women at my job or in random places have showed interest in me but I didn’t pursue anything out of love and respect for my girl. I didn’t want to hurt her and damage her further knowing the experiences she’s been through previously. It’s like since I been with my girl the amount of women showing interest in me has exploded smh 😭 I have a lot of self control no f***ing cap. Like not even on some flexing s*** it’s just really getting to me here and there because I’m the type of person who used to like hookup with a different chick every couple weeks and never let the opportunity to slide pass me by so being in this long term relationship and not capitalizing on these random interactions with women who are showing me they’re with it is kind of a foreign feeling for me

    This like the 3rd thread you made about this damn

    Pics of ya girl

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    Young King

    This like the 3rd thread you made about this damn

    Pics of ya girl

    lowkey just a brag thread

    "ugh guysss i have such an amazing girlfriend but I really miss f***ing new girls every week like I used to"

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    Malafe
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    I understand, I recommend you allow yourself a cheat day where you indulge in one sneaky link per week while being faithful the rest of the time. Perfectionism is the enemy of growth

    Do not listen to this niggha this nigga got hella issues himself do not take advice he will be your downfall op

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    *Synchronicity is the weirdest s****

  • AR15 💯
    Nov 15, 2023

    Just cheat p****

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    Sounds like a weird spot to be in, but act on those urges every now and then to preserve your conscience. Having a girlfriend shouldn't prevent you from exploring the bodies of other women and potential partners. I don't think it's cheating if you don't get caught anyway.

    You got this Dr Longstroke.

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    a nigga's worst enemy is they self

    do not fall and create issues for no reason @op

    If you dont want a relationship then dont have one

    You are also playing with someone elses life and wasting their time as well - on top of the instability it will bring

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    plants

    lowkey just a brag thread

    "ugh guysss i have such an amazing girlfriend but I really miss f***ing new girls every week like I used to"

    Bro I ain’t even trying to brag I’m just hella conflicted internally I don’t know what to do about this feeling I have I feel like constricted it feels weird to me to not follow up on things and my relationship has been rocky so it makes me think like have I been wasting my time when I could have been single & sliding?

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    DR LONGSTROKE

    Bro I ain’t even trying to brag I’m just hella conflicted internally I don’t know what to do about this feeling I have I feel like constricted it feels weird to me to not follow up on things and my relationship has been rocky so it makes me think like have I been wasting my time when I could have been single & sliding?

    Cheat nigga

    Do it

    Its not cheatin if you use a rubber

  • Nov 15, 2023
    DR LONGSTROKE

    Bro I ain’t even trying to brag I’m just hella conflicted internally I don’t know what to do about this feeling I have I feel like constricted it feels weird to me to not follow up on things and my relationship has been rocky so it makes me think like have I been wasting my time when I could have been single & sliding?

    Conflicted? What question do you want answered

    Break up and be a s*** or get over it

  • plants 🌻
    Nov 15, 2023
    DR LONGSTROKE

    Bro I ain’t even trying to brag I’m just hella conflicted internally I don’t know what to do about this feeling I have I feel like constricted it feels weird to me to not follow up on things and my relationship has been rocky so it makes me think like have I been wasting my time when I could have been single & sliding?

    nah im playin, I know from earlier threads ur serious and you mean well, im just farming impressions

    my advice is coming from the perspective of someone who wifed up his girl with the swiftness, and I also got a low body count, so idk what it's like to be with a new girl so often like that.
    but id tell you the same thing I keep telling my friend who is in a similar position to you which is if you ain't All In on the relationship and you're having doubts, then that's your canary in the coal mine and you should prolly get out

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    Young King

    Cheat nigga

    Do it

    Its not cheatin if you use a rubber

    You only live once b**** I don't want a text
    I wanna f*** you dry with this f***ing latex
    It ain't safe s***if your f***ing with no rubber
    And if you raw dog her you's a dumb mothafucka

  • Nov 15, 2023
    DR LONGSTROKE

    Bro I ain’t even trying to brag I’m just hella conflicted internally I don’t know what to do about this feeling I have I feel like constricted it feels weird to me to not follow up on things and my relationship has been rocky so it makes me think like have I been wasting my time when I could have been single & sliding?

    if you dont want your relationship then have some balls and break it off instead of being half way out and in

    or stay in the releationship and work it out

    you said your life is stable but if your relationship is really "rocky" like you said then that isnt stability and probably part of why you feel like this

    pick a road and stick to it instead of swervin - both are right answers it just depends on you

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    They p**** can read when your dating other women bro they got a sixth sense women do it on purpose

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    plants

    Dude wants a pat on the back for not cheating lmao

  • Nov 15, 2023

    Break up with her
    Ur gonna end up cheating

  • Malafe
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    I understand, I recommend you allow yourself a cheat day where you indulge in one sneaky link per week while being faithful the rest of the time. Perfectionism is the enemy of growth

    🤣🤣🤣

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    Based Gaultier

    They p**** can read when your dating other women bro they got a sixth sense women do it on purpose

    They be scanning the barcode on our sack n s*** checking for transactions

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    Water Giver

    a nigga's worst enemy is they self

    do not fall and create issues for no reason @op

    If you dont want a relationship then dont have one

    You are also playing with someone elses life and wasting their time as well - on top of the instability it will bring

    I just wish I could be with her but also have something on the side because I definitely experience a lot of FOMO about attractive women who flirt with me but I know she’s not down for letting me step outside our relationship and I wouldn’t be down with her being with anybody else either to be fair.
    I’m a young guy still and my girl is a bit older than me and I see all these other young men out here living in a way that seems more free to me than what I have but I also don’t want to lose what I have

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    Zach LaBeam

    Dude wants a pat on the back for not cheating lmao

    Bro not even capping I done dubbed some fine s*** recently to respect my relationship like I don’t want props but I feel like my girl doesn’t realize what I do and how many options I have and also what kind of quality man I am with how loyal I’ve been to her and how patient and loving I’ve been to her, I don’t always feel appreciated and my relationship with her has been rocky a lot in the past but there is a lot of love there too. I would say more good than bad. Things have been good for a min.

  • Nov 15, 2023
    DR LONGSTROKE

    Bro not even capping I done dubbed some fine s*** recently to respect my relationship like I don’t want props but I feel like my girl doesn’t realize what I do and how many options I have and also what kind of quality man I am with how loyal I’ve been to her and how patient and loving I’ve been to her, I don’t always feel appreciated and my relationship with her has been rocky a lot in the past but there is a lot of love there too. I would say more good than bad. Things have been good for a min.

    Yup, that's a relationship lol. Having to ask yourself if moments of random p**** are better than the time you and your girl put in.
    A real one's supposed to help you level up and vice versa. If yall aren't doing that for each other then..