And I don’t want to be around anyone I know and I don’t feel comfortable being myself around even my own family
Anyone got any advice
Get a hobby and hit the gym.
All these things you listed can be changed, it just takes time and effort, try to do a little every day
Get a hobby and hit the gym.
All these things you listed can be changed, it just takes time and effort, try to do a little every day
You haven't even lived a quarter of your whole life
If you aren't happy with something, then try to do something about it little by little
Is there a reason why you're not comfortable around your own family?
Is there a reason why you're not comfortable around your own family?
I haven’t been comfortable around my family or anyone in years it’s weird
You wanna feel better u needa change ur routines. Obviously ur habits arent helping.
Start working out n u prolly dont wanna hit the gym cuz u self conscious or some s*** so go on r/bodyweightfitness start a routine n force urself especially on the days u dont want to.
U wan make friends? U gotta put urself out there. Join a club at school, a team, joing a fighting, gymnastics or any other type of place where people get together n do s***.
Ur young n u got a lot of time to figure s*** out, I recommend u start trying new things now. Sitting on the computer crying isnt gon fix ur problems. Self pity gets nothing done. Put a fire under ur ass n do things that are difficult for u the only way to grow is by challenging urself
OP I was like u until I was like 15 then it all clicked. No cap I just started listened to Kanye West constantly to get that God mentality and started doing sports and talking to people.
Join a easy sports team like soccer house league or something I dropped hella weight doing that
Could just be me but don't underestimate music. Listen to whatever makes you feel good like constantly.
Don't try to force yourself into friend group just find people you end up vibing with as you talk with them and stick with it
You wanna feel better u needa change ur routines. Obviously ur habits arent helping.
Start working out n u prolly dont wanna hit the gym cuz u self conscious or some s*** so go on r/bodyweightfitness start a routine n force urself especially on the days u dont want to.
U wan make friends? U gotta put urself out there. Join a club at school, a team, joing a fighting, gymnastics or any other type of place where people get together n do s***.
Ur young n u got a lot of time to figure s*** out, I recommend u start trying new things now. Sitting on the computer crying isnt gon fix ur problems. Self pity gets nothing done. Put a fire under ur ass n do things that are difficult for u the only way to grow is by challenging urself
Yeah I don’t even feel comfortable eating healthy because then it’s a thing in my family that I’m trying to lose weight and I don’t even have the energy for that.
I just got to do something soon I guess
And kids my age I used to be cool with a lot of them and I hated being around them honestly. No offence to them but they’re just different to me and have different interests. I mean there’s probably someone here who is more like me I guess there’s got to be but I don’t wanna go out and do that, I have no confidence. I guess losing weight will give me more confidence and it honestly won’t be THAT hard I’m not even that fat but I always end up eating a lil bit too much while I’m stress eating and end up having nothing happen so I guess I gotta just cut that out. Also I gotta get a job soon so it might help having a reason to get out the house or it might be soul crushing idk, in elementary I was top of my class but I haven’t tried since so idk how much Mac Donald’s is gonna help my mental health. But yeah that’s what it is right now guess I gotta start eating less starting 2day
And I don’t want to be around anyone I know and I don’t feel comfortable being myself around even my own family
Anyone got any advice
The next five years of your life will fly by so stop being fat first and foremost
Could just be me but don't underestimate music. Listen to whatever makes you feel good like constantly.
Don't try to force yourself into friend group just find people you end up vibing with as you talk with them and stick with it
I think there should be an equal balance of listening to what you genuinely enjoy and listening to things that challenge your worldview
If not equal, then 80/20 at least
The next five years of your life will fly by so stop being fat first and foremost
Ur right
Yeah I don’t even feel comfortable eating healthy because then it’s a thing in my family that I’m trying to lose weight and I don’t even have the energy for that.
I just got to do something soon I guess
And kids my age I used to be cool with a lot of them and I hated being around them honestly. No offence to them but they’re just different to me and have different interests. I mean there’s probably someone here who is more like me I guess there’s got to be but I don’t wanna go out and do that, I have no confidence. I guess losing weight will give me more confidence and it honestly won’t be THAT hard I’m not even that fat but I always end up eating a lil bit too much while I’m stress eating and end up having nothing happen so I guess I gotta just cut that out. Also I gotta get a job soon so it might help having a reason to get out the house or it might be soul crushing idk, in elementary I was top of my class but I haven’t tried since so idk how much Mac Donald’s is gonna help my mental health. But yeah that’s what it is right now guess I gotta start eating less starting 2day
You're gonna have to make it a "thing" in your family. And if they don't like that, then that's their problem. don't let them stand in the way of your weight loss
Tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your life
Lol I thought that thought a hundred times . I guess this is the first time ‘saying’ it though lmao. So yeah, I hope so. I’ll give it a shot