aaa aaa

5y

Lol I thought that thought a hundred times . I guess this is the first time ‘saying’ it though lmao. So yeah, I hope so. I’ll give it a shot

laudi

5y

Portion control + mostly drink water

aaa aaa

5y

Yeah I know I only drink water for a couple months and I lowkey love it and I do eat less. I think I have lost weight idk though there’s no weights on the house and I’m too embarrassed to get any so I’ll just assume I lost a lil bit . I gotta do more though

Lemon11

5y

You're gonna have to make it a "thing" in your family. And if they don't like that, then that's their problem. don't let them stand in the way of your weight loss

aaa aaa

5y

Yeah I don’t even feel comfortable eating healthy because then it’s a thing in my family that I’m trying to lose weight and I don’t even have the energy for that.

I just got to do something soon I guess

And kids my age I used to be cool with a lot of them and I hated being around them honestly. No offence to them but they’re just different to me and have different interests. I mean there’s probably someone here who is more like me I guess there’s got to be but I don’t wanna go out and do that, I have no confidence. I guess losing weight will give me more confidence and it honestly won’t be THAT hard I’m not even that fat but I always end up eating a lil bit too much while I’m stress eating and end up having nothing happen so I guess I gotta just cut that out. Also I gotta get a job soon so it might help having a reason to get out the house or it might be soul crushing idk, in elementary I was top of my class but I haven’t tried since so idk how much Mac Donald’s is gonna help my mental health. But yeah that’s what it is right now guess I gotta start eating less starting 2day

laudi

5y

Try to do push-ups each day
And real ones, don’t cheat yourself

aaa aaa

5y

I haven’t been comfortable around my family or anyone in years it’s weird

Kossisko

5y

Trust i relate to a lot of what ur saying i went thru a lotta that anxiety even round my best friends n fam but yeah the only real way to get better is to put in the work. That means forcing urself to do things u dont want to. First couple months i started working out i hated every workout then at some point i started wanting to workout cuz it made me feel better. Same thing wit eating better.

And i just wanna say confidence isnt something eveeybodys born wit for a lot of people it requires building urself up. U seem to have a negative self concept saying s*** like I'm fat even when u admit ur not that overweight. Build ur confidence step by step ur issue wit ur weigjt is a simple fix. Get fit n see how much better u feel when u walk around wit yo chest out cuz u feel like u look good. It gets easier to build urself up once u get the ball rolling. Dont get stuck on how u feel rn, feelings are temporary. Think about who u want to be n start working ur way there, before u realize its even happening ull start having better days

Kossisko

5y

Trust i relate to a lot of what ur saying i went thru a lotta that anxiety even round my best friends n fam but yeah the only real way to get better is to put in the work. That means forcing urself to do things u dont want to. First couple months i started working out i hated every workout then at some point i started wanting to workout cuz it made me feel better. Same thing wit eating better.

And i just wanna say confidence isnt something eveeybodys born wit for a lot of people it requires building urself up. U seem to have a negative self concept saying s*** like I'm fat even when u admit ur not that overweight. Build ur confidence step by step ur issue wit ur weigjt is a simple fix. Get fit n see how much better u feel when u walk around wit yo chest out cuz u feel like u look good. It gets easier to build urself up once u get the ball rolling. Dont get stuck on how u feel rn, feelings are temporary. Think about who u want to be n start working ur way there, before u realize its even happening ull start having better days

aaa aaa

5y

Man I wish I wasn’t such a p**** and just did it then literally everything would be better and it would be no big deal but I’m not gonna . Lol . I gotta do it the hard way I guess lol. Thanks for the advice though mane

Ellinia

5y

I think trying to find out for yourself why you're uncomfortable around people might be a good start to understanding your situation better and improving it.

Kossisko

5y

Fam i used to be the typa dude that had his eyes glued to the floor walking down the street. Always tryna keep a low profile, i stopped throwing birthday parties cuz i hated the attention.

Now i talk to strangers easy. Making random ass people smile n laugh n s***. I look people in the eye til theyre uncomfortable idgaf. I started to change cuz i promised myself i wasnt gon be a p****. I started taking risks doing things outta my comfort zone. Now i honestly barely feel any of that negative s***

aaa aaa

5y

Yeah I should do that, and thanks for the advice ur giving I aprieciate it. I hope I take it lol. If I do I’ll post here when im skinny and everything’s perfect and shout u out lmao

DriveSlow

5y

being fat is woat especially when you're young. don't listen to anyone that says it doesn't matter or be comfortable w youself or any of that bs

fix that s*** before you're 21 cause if you don't you're gonna wake up one day and realize you wasted some peak years being unfuckable. if you're in high school it should be easy just join a sport

DAVIDP

5y

Don't worry man , once you get out of high school just focus on your life. S*** will get better.

aaa aaa

5y

I appreciate it . I gotta do something man . I got fat as a kid cus I didn’t gaf cause everyone liked me because I was the funniest kid at school then around middle school we all grew in to people and I wasn’t like them and I was just left fat and now with no friends I lost confidence.

But yeah who cares.
Thanks for the advice though man genuine

laudi

5y

bUt gIrLs lIkE dAdBoDs

4seazons

5y

You were only funny bc you're fat bro. Think about it like that

aaa aaa

5y

Nah I was funny I’m still funny to these guys when I wanna make them laugh but I don’t laugh at that shyt it’s boring I wanna be myself

4seazons

5y

Turn yourself into a beast. Play a sport or join a frat. You gotta maximize these years or you're gonna regret it

aaa aaa

5y

Yeah I know that I’m ‘trying’... ‘trying’.

, I appreciate it though fr