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  • aaa aaa

    And I don’t want to be around anyone I know and I don’t feel comfortable being myself around even my own family

    Anyone got any advice

    You're too young to worry about this. Just watch anime to get back that spice in your life.

    Hajime No Ippo will give you the courage to fight back in your life.

    I'm dead serious.

  • Dec 7, 2019
    TentacionForever

    We all know op isnt just gonna follow through though no matter you say. We need to be realistic here people dont change.

    Tentacion Forever

  • Dec 7, 2019

    tbh man... focus on ur school rn and losing weight

  • Dec 7, 2019

    Work out and give up on high school, socially that is, you’re already too deep. Start building towards what your gonna do after.

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    aaa aaa

    Yeah man, I think a lot of it is I don't fit in. I've got a lot of friends at school or whatever really but I don't actually want to be around my friends because I Don't relate with them really i guess. Like I can be friends with someone pretty easy I just don't like being around them and if im really being myself they would not really get it

    Is it because you think you're having different thoughts than your friends? Like you're thinking about more mature stuff?
    You know a lot of people just hide these thoughts or don't let them get near themselves, because it's easier to just be fun all day and pretend to be carefree. Inside it might look different. The only thing one can do is talk about it. Maybe they are having similar thoughts and if not you'll surely encounter someone in the future that you can talk about those topics. We all get older, get more responsibilities and thus our view changes, not everything will be fun and games anymore.

    And it's also perfectly normal to be an introvert. My Girl is like this, she hates going out. She doesn't like people much in general, she doesn't need them to be around her, like she's fine by herself. Don't worry bout that, that's okay. Some people just are like that. She accepted it and is happy with the few contacts she has and still let's me have my free space.

  • Dec 7, 2019

    If you you’re tired of being fat then do something about it, if you have no friends then make some. I was in your place at your age and i changed that

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    how fat are you? whats ur weight?

  • Dec 7, 2019
    BVL

    how fat are you? whats ur weight?

    idk I wear L size but I genuinely used to think I looked like boogie 2988 or some shyt lmao

  • Dec 7, 2019
    Ethic

    Is it because you think you're having different thoughts than your friends? Like you're thinking about more mature stuff?
    You know a lot of people just hide these thoughts or don't let them get near themselves, because it's easier to just be fun all day and pretend to be carefree. Inside it might look different. The only thing one can do is talk about it. Maybe they are having similar thoughts and if not you'll surely encounter someone in the future that you can talk about those topics. We all get older, get more responsibilities and thus our view changes, not everything will be fun and games anymore.

    And it's also perfectly normal to be an introvert. My Girl is like this, she hates going out. She doesn't like people much in general, she doesn't need them to be around her, like she's fine by herself. Don't worry bout that, that's okay. Some people just are like that. She accepted it and is happy with the few contacts she has and still let's me have my free space.

    I appreciate it man but it’s not even that. I’m really friends with some normal people and I’m interested in weird shyt fr. I don’t know how to explain it... I don’t want to say they’re ‘basic’ because I don’t believe in that but I guess that shows kinda what I mean.

  • Dec 7, 2019

    lose weight then if you don't want to be fat

  • Nuja 🫶🏾
    Dec 7, 2019
    bloom

    Start being fit instead of fat

    will solve all these problems

    Wow great reply

  • Dec 7, 2019
    mewacagar

    Try vodka

    I like vodka

  • Nuja 🫶🏾
    Dec 7, 2019

    Losing weight isn’t as black and white as a lot of people like to make it sound. You have to be in the mental place for staying consistent with it. With that being said once you are in the mental space where you now it’s what you want and you’ll work hard for it, cut sugars out of your diet, eat healthier in general, drink lots of water, exercise regularly, id say focus on cardio for losing weight. Getting in better shape will increase your self confidence which will help you socially as well, granted it’s not just going to give you a personality so also reflect on why you struggle with making friends and work on toxic traits you see within yourself. You’re still young and have plenty of time to work on yourself OP

  • Nuja 🫶🏾
    Dec 7, 2019

    A lot of pots calling the kettle black itt trying to roast.

  • Dec 7, 2019

    a lot of good advice ITT but one thing i want to add:

    dont try to change EVERYTHING at ONCE! it will not work
    i learned this the hard way multiple times. i tried to change my life/attitude so many times but i wanted too much at once to change.
    after a few days or weeks youll be exhausted and fall back into old patterns.
    start off changing ONE thing only (e.g. start working out OR start eating healthy OR do whatever) but only change one thing until its routine and only after that try to change something else

  • Dec 7, 2019

    Just be in caloric deficit

    Its that simple

  • Dec 7, 2019

    asap yams was fat whats ur excuse

  • post about it on a website and that'll help my g

    don't use fat as a crutch. It's a lot of regular charismatic fat niggas that are still cool son. that's a you problem.

  • Dec 7, 2019

    Do d**** , stop eating, hit a gym

  • p t ✝️
    Dec 7, 2019

    bro youre still so young dawg

  • Dec 7, 2019

    u lose all ur friends by the time u hit 27 so ur not missing out on much

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