Yeah , I just need the strength to get out of the house , im trying tho

Most video people I know do weddings

Glad you’re still alive OP

Now get up and go make the world your b****

I’m struggling with this too.
Just know that you are enough, you are loveable and you are actually perfect as you are. You don’t need to do anything before you’re worthy, like jogging or cleaning the house, though it’s good advice. As you are right now, with all the destructive behaviour, negative thoughts, hate, jealousy (and the list goes on) inside you, inside everyone, you are worthy of love and are loved.

And further, it’s ok to not feel like you’re worthy of love right now and there’s probably a reason you don’t. Maybe a person or event told you you’re not enough, and you did what anyone who needs love would do: you began trying to change that. Something to reflect on.

If you want something to do though keeping a gratitude journal actually makes me feel great. Just write down 5 things you’re grateful for before you sleep. It’s a nice bonding activity to do with your girl too, if she’s down. Just share 5 things you’re each grateful for and you keep each other committed to it too. Just make sure she makes the list every now and then

Hmu if you want to talk

Is that working for you ? Will definitely try that.

Yeah man. If you’ve got a little extra time you can say why you’re grateful too but I’m sure you can discover for yourself how it works and what works best for you.

Thank you man , love

Bro trust me u need physical activity in ur life, I SWEAR it will change everything!!
I know that whole idea might seem a bit silly but trust me I didnt believe it either n it changed my life forever

Start jogging twice a week and sign up train some kind of sport at least 2 more days of the week

You WILL notice HUUUUGE change as soon as in 3-4 months, I promise!!!

im def using this talk to my own good. can't wait for pms

selah i love you homie

im also 27 and s*** is so hard right now sometimes but it'll get better. u made it this far

most important thing is that you chose to start, now just keep that momentum building and in a months time your situation will have flipped completely

I went running today , it felt good ❤️

I love you too, we’re gonna make it ❤️

Start studying the subconscious mind fam

Pull your self out bro

I did myself and this world is so much better I promise fam

is that all you got of his long ass post? lol

My guy.. as the first reply said, in life you are always going to face hardships. Always. Until your very last breathe. You are always going to be facing your vices and conflicts with people. We all are. It doesn't make it any better but it's better to arm yourself with the mental to always fight your best. When you feel like you have no options and there's nowhere to go, take a step back and just say f*** it. Take things in stride. Do what you can. I think once I hit that point where I just said f*** it, everything became easier and I had a much better mental. Because we can't really control much, but we can control how we feel and how we deal with issues. This is coming from a 30 year old.

find a pdf of the power of now and read that
do ''wim hof breathing exercises''. doesnt have to be long. couple minutes a day if a great start
jerk off when u feel like cheating
keep going mane

OP where do u live?

Same for photography too.

go get it motherfucker. we love you

fax

I don’t know what to tell you man tbh I share your misery but maybe not to that extent

I have a good job, friends, girls etc but I still feel so alone. I only really feel comfortable when I’m alone and I don’t feel like I’ll ever be understood. I find myself being a completely different person when I’m with others because whenever I’ve been myself around others I tend to scare them away or they don’t find maintaining a relationship with me worth it (not sure why)

Don’t know how much longer I can keep this bs up and I’ve explored all options and I’m just growing more and more tired

No matter what anyone can or will tel you it’s up to you man. I’m not going to encourage doing yourself harm but if you can’t fight anymore then check yourself into a hospital or something. Stop dragging yourself if you don’t think you can keep going

Either go all in or all out and stop wasting your time in pain

i gotta try , I have a good girl right now that is giving me some hope - and actually seeing all the hope the people here gave me has given me some strength

have you always felt this way ? is your job good because it pays well or is it good because you like doing it ?

in regards to being another person when im with people, believe me im like that 100% of the time , but in reality everyone wears a mask, idk some people are just more aware that they are wearing masks, I try to be myself as much as I can with two or three people, that I kept over the years , the rest they all leave and go away

but for those two or three people I can be myself

you'll find someone you can be yourself with if you need to talk , we're going trough similar stuff ( the difference is im almost broke now ) talk to me

the last two days for me have been a little productive , my house looks a lot better now , I went to get my driver's license , I even had a lunch with my mother without us fighting, the positivity in this thread helped a lot

so maybe I can give some of that to you too, you will find someone that you can be yourself with, because you already found, you have a whole forum that you can be as you want without being judged, because everyone here is weird

im gonna make it and so will you

@S please get us DM's soon

im from Portugal