Is that really rude? I always say "hey, how's it going? Lemme get a (...)" when ordering food
Did you read the entire post...?
I swear to God I thought I did nvm fam its all good. Still you may be overthinking it. It's more about the tone than the word choice imo
English is a very impolite language imo
The people that speak it too
Imagine generalizing like that
How
You’re upset at wording something a certain way when you know what they really mean
What about "I'd like a" or "can I get a"
Also I feel like I hear people saying that using "No problem" is problematic and implies that they caused a problem that u didn't let bother u, but like, it ain't like that at all. No problem is based. But I feel like it's a lil different from what ur talking about in op
i kinda stopped saying no problem and started saying happy to help. for me it means the same thing but ik the connotation is better with the latter
i kinda stopped saying no problem and started saying happy to help. for me it means the same thing but ik the connotation is better with the latter
maybe ill try this today at work
I work in retail and it always bugs me every single time it happens how casual people say things like “give me”, “get me a” or “let me have a” among other similarly demanding remarks. It’s such a rude way to ask for something, and I could never fix myself to say that to someone. I wasn’t even raised to say this but I always say may I have our can I have a. It just feels more right and will get you a lot further of you need help with something otherwise.
Not that this is a reflection of their character or anything, it’s just the way they speak. Still impossible not to notice.
Lol nigga stfu
And get a better job clown. If people are spending their hard earned money and not being actually demeaning to you or anything who cares? Lol literally nitpicking Tf you posting this s*** for. Petty ass nigga
I Worked food service For years and has never bothered me and there was plenty of rude things customers did and that wasn’t one of them
If a b**** a McDonalds say “What can I get you?” I’m gonna say “Can I get…?” Lol its not a problem. It’s just words. I said “Thank you ma’am” also after I got my bag. That’s an indictment of how people were raised
Jesus Christ. The things yall overreact to & whine about.
What if after the transaction I just slap the absolute s*** out of your stupid face and leave you there more senseless than you were before I met your annoying ass?
Just because it isn’t the biggest problem in the world doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be taken any less serious then anything else
I fully agree with you. I work at a grocery store and you can def tell who are good people and who are the a******s by how they treat strangers / employees
I don't think that's the least of society's problems. The dehumanization of labor is the foundation for an unhappy society. People are consumers for a decade plus before they are laborers now. That's their identity.
God shut up.
And their family/caretaker is a laborer while they are consumer. What the hell are you on about.
God shut up.
And their family/caretaker is a laborer while they are consumer. What the hell are you on about.
Why are you angry
“Can I got to the bathroom”
Teacher: “Idk, CAN you?! 🥸”
Headass
Honestly this is where it started for me. The first time they said this I just said "...yes?" And the teacher gave me the craziest look before another student whispered "you're supposed to say may I" And it kind of just stuck.
Lol nigga stfu
Dawg you just triple posted in this thread about something that, in reality, is more or less a nonissue to me.
I need you to calm down.