You’re upset at wording something a certain way when you know what they really mean
Cause its rude, but like I said its just the way people speak. Not like I take it personally. It doesn't "upset" me as much as you think it does.
i kinda stopped saying no problem and started saying happy to help. for me it means the same thing but ik the connotation is better with the latter
oh nah, cuz it's no problem but I ain't happy about it lol
I work in retail and it always bugs me every single time it happens how casual people say things like “give me”, “get me a” or “let me have a” among other similarly demanding remarks. It’s such a rude way to ask for something, and I could never fix myself to say that to someone. I wasn’t even raised to say this but I always say may I have our can I have a. It just feels more right and will get you a lot further of you need help with something otherwise.
Not that this is a reflection of their character or anything, it’s just the way they speak. Still impossible not to notice.
This post says more about you more than anything because the average person isn’t even thinking of it in that way
This post says more about you more than anything because the average person isn’t even thinking of it in that way
Wrong. It says more that others get so upset by the mere observation. I didn’t even say anything about the people except it’s kinda rude to ask for things like that.
And how would you know what a “normal” person thinks about?
I usually ask 'Can I have, or Do you have?'
I lowkey think the same thing
And it's because I feel weird demanding something rather than asking.
I do the same s*** at my job with the material handlers. At first I was like 'Get me this and that...' Now I'm like 'Can you get me this?’ And people definitely notice and like that. But I also personally don't like to talk to people like they're my servants who owe me s***.
act like you dont hear them or get real bold and stare at them until they say "can I get" or "may I get"
I’m still a may I please have kinda guy
But yeah the way workers are treated is a big problem
act like you dont hear them or get real bold and stare at them until they say "can I get" or "may I get"
Good way to get fired
I’m still a may I please have kinda guy
But yeah the way workers are treated is a big problem
Workers themselves are also a BIG problem
It's even better when you say hello or good morning and they reply with this instead of saying it back
I say “let me get” to everyone been saying it since I was a shorty. Don’t think it’s disrespectful or anything.
I say “let me get” to everyone been saying it since I was a shorty. Don’t think it’s disrespectful or anything.
If you are like not rude in general I don't think this is a big deal
I say “let me get” to everyone been saying it since I was a shorty. Don’t think it’s disrespectful or anything.
If you are like not rude in general I don't think this is a big deal
Tbh. I worked fast food before and never thought anything about it because we know what the person mean. Now if their tone is nasty, that’s a different story
What’s wrong with us
I see workers being rude to customers more often than I see customers being rude to employees. I’ve also had employees be rude with me over literally just them doing their job lol
Lazy, Attitudes, etc…All types of s***.
OP crying about words. Its nit like everywhere I go greeters greet, all employees say yes sir and no sir, etc…sometimes its just yeah and s*** lol
Imagine the nigga in the service station getting bent out of shape enough to make a thread about it because I said “Let me get two packs of swishers.”
Like stfu
I guess if I don’t pay at the pump I should say “May I have some gas on pump two?”
NahI know I can so i’ma say “Put $40 on pump 2.” Lol that’s not rude nigga do your job.
Imagine the nigga in the service station getting bent out of shape enough to make a thread about it because I said “Let me get two packs of swishers.”
Like stfu
I guess if I don’t pay at the pump I should say “May I have some gas on pump two?”
NahI know I can so i’ma say “Put $40 on pump 2.” Lol that’s not rude nigga do your job.
You should say please and thank you