I do all the time but OP doesnt care. Just like if I tell somebody “Let me get a…” i’m going to say thank you after the deed is done.

That’s the point. How someone words a request hardly has s*** to do with their upbringing and OP is just whining and clearly taking s*** personal lol

Like he feels inadequate because people dont kiss his ass or something

That's good enough then I think

Fr it’s all about tone and demeanor. Someone can say ‘can I get a X, Y’ but all rushed and rude and it’s gonna be a lot worse than someone who says ‘lemme get a X, Y please...thank you’ and is overall courteous.

I just ask "Can i get a" or "May i have a"

With a please and thank you

I always say thank you to people

I work in customer service myself and you would not believe how far a thank you can go

i feel like saying “may i get” is a bit too extra but maybe that’s just me

like trying a bit too hard to be polite

or you’re old

can i get or just lemme get is fine and casual

just don’t be an a****** or weird

niggas b**** about everything lmao

How do you know what "normal" people think

I know.

working retail will completely destroy your faith in humanity my guy

Shopping retail too….not like retail employees are that great either.

Mfrs showing up with s***ty attitudes and all they do is fold clothes, stock funkos or some s***.

This is actually something that doesn’t get talked about enough tbh. Especially when you tryna order food at night.

nah i’m with you op
sometimes ppl demand stuff instead of asking, as if you’re not the one doing them a favour

lmao @ ppl in the thread thinking op is taking these comments personally. tell you haven’t worked a service industry without telling me
really what happens is ppl are rude to you, you hold it in and then b**** to your coworker about the rude c*** you just dealt with and you move on. it’s not that serious

Had plenty retail jobs during College. Yall just b****ing.

You’re “lmao” when several people in here have said they worked retail and thought he was taking it personal. Retail struggle. Get over yourself lol

Ehh I get what you mean, but you’d be bordering brittleness if you let something like that get you pensive about society.

Years ago I heard someone say “you can give me a..” and I still think about how much I hated that til this day.

lmao you really took this personally huh

Lol sure. If you wanna go with that.

“Doing them a favor”. You mean doing the job you’re getting paid for, which you willingly signed up for.

Nigga just chillin at the mall doing favors for customers I guess lol

THAT post lets you know PART the problem. Muthafucking retail employees thinking their job is f***ing volunteer work when really their being thrown a lob getting paid to do some of the easier jobs around

Once upon a time not long ago when the pusherman creep where they live like po

lol now I see why I got this nigga blocked

I think they think I start crying and sweating profusely when people use those demanding remarks, on account of me bringing it up at all. If they don't care then I'm "bitching" or suggesting I "don't understand what they mean" ...somehow.

Its such a juvenile leap in judgement about a person. Its like if a guy says he likes a quality of another guy, and calling it gay. Its as childish as that. I think for them its easier to dismiss any substance of the concern that is not relevant to them, or a defensive response for calling them out on something they do.

@World1 in particular has like, 10 posts in this thread, just fuming over nothing. Despite saying at the bottom its not a reflection of people, just the way they speak. I think he just wakes up mad.

Yeah thats like a specifically tailored statement altogether I have never heard that one.