you mean saying that beatings("deserved" in this sense) are bad because they'll inflict trauma? i mean there are anecdotes on both sides but i don't see scientific articles promoting it
Y'all be acting like every kid who got beat growing up got some deeply rooted issues and psychological damage when the reality is that alot of kids got their asses beat and really do just turn up fine in life.
Lotta s*** really ain't as deep as y'all think it is just cause y'all heads are still able to go so far up y'all own asses.
Niggas really some babies talking about beatings are psychologically scarring. There's real abuse victims, you getting your ass beat cause you did some dumb s*** is not no f***ing abuse 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
Man this is a f***ing terrible take..
She's always been a trash human
Not surprised she made an apology post to her daughter be about herself being ahead of her times
My parents never grounded me lmao all they did was say "That won't happen again" and i got the message
You a lot better of a kid than me, if that was all my parents said and never backed it up with action I would've been a whole different dude.
you mean saying that beatings("deserved" in this sense) are bad because they'll inflict trauma? i mean there are anecdotes on both sides but i don't see scientific articles promoting it
Why are you trying to use science when it benefits your narrative? Funny how we pick and choose when to use it
who liked this dumbass s*** expose yourselves
Your top listened artist is Taylor Swift please shut the f*** up.
just gonna drop this here
https://www.apa.org/pi/families/resources/newsletter/2017/04/racial-trauma
Hmm, good read, but I'm unsure about this:
"Historians and anthropologists have found no evidence that ritualistic forms of physical discipline of children existed in precolonial West African societies prior to the Atlantic slave trade."
Christianity in West African society predates that and gave us passages such as:
"Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you punish them with the rod, they will not die. Punish them with the rod and save them from death. My son, if your heart is wise, then my heart will be glad indeed"
Proverbs 23:13-15
If you followed Proverbs as a main disciplinary source, you would hit your kids out of compassion
I'm surprised the journal doesn't touch on Portuguese missionaries
Y'all be acting like every kid who got beat growing up got some deeply rooted issues and psychological damage when the reality is that alot of kids got their asses beat and really do just turn up fine in life.
Lotta s*** really ain't as deep as y'all think it is just cause y'all heads are still able to go so far up y'all own asses.
there's hella people itt saying it didn't affect them and that's never been my stance. but nah a spanking or multiple spankings prob not gonna psychology scar someone but i'm not saying it 100% wont
my stance has been i don't want people hitting me i'm not gonna hit people and if there's research supporting or denying whatever side i align with so be it
Y'all be acting like every kid who got beat growing up got some deeply rooted issues and psychological damage when the reality is that alot of kids got their asses beat and really do just turn up fine in life.
Lotta s*** really ain't as deep as y'all think it is just cause y'all heads are still able to go so far up y'all own asses.
Exactly. Some holier than thou ass niggas acting like you a f***ing monster if you spank your child.
Why are you trying to use science when it benefits your narrative? Funny how we pick and choose when to use it
because i haven't seen research advocating for corporal punishment but i don't routinely look into this topic as it doesn't come up in my life hardly ever. simple enough 4 u?
People ITT really think beating your kids is good
If you’re a good parent your children 9/10 won’t act out to the point they “need” to be hit.
All these people ITT talking about “If my parents didn’t hit me I would’ve been doing wild s***!” Well clearly your parents didn’t raise you right in the first place bc news flash it’s not that hard to not be an idiot
I’m not a fan of Lauryn completely dismissing her daughter feelings/experience like that. Especially in public.
Like I've experienced physical discipline and physical abuse as a child. Growing up I've been able to make the clear distinction between the two. There are many times where I definitely deserved my ass getting beat. I frequently stole outta stores and would fight with other kids despite frequently being told to stop doing the s***. The beatings from that we're very deserved cause I was being a dumbass and harming others.
Then there are many times where I got beat just cause my dad was terrible, had his issues, and had no way of properly taking it out. He's an a****** for that and it's why I don't f*** with that nigga to this day.
I'm damaged by the latter. Not the former. If y'all cannot make the distinction between the two just say it and shut up
Like I've experienced physical discipline and physical abuse as a child. Growing up I've been able to make the clear distinction between the two. There are many times where I definitely deserved my ass getting beat. I frequently stole outta stores and would fight with other kids despite frequently being told to stop doing the s***. The beatings from that we're very deserved cause I was being a dumbass and harming others.
Then there are many times where I got beat just cause my dad was terrible, had his issues, and had no way of properly taking it out. He's an a****** for that and it's why I don't f*** with that nigga to this day.
I'm damaged by the latter. Not the former. If y'all cannot make the distinction between the two just say it and shut up
I’m not a fan of Lauryn completely dismissing her daughter feelings/experience like that. Especially in public.
Agreed
Getting whooped is common, but if your child gets older and say “yeah that f***ed me up” you can’t dismiss that.
You a lot better of a kid than me, if that was all my parents said and never backed it up with action I would've been a whole different dude.
I was a wild child and chilled out the more I grew. got the belt when I was younger but nothing past 2nd grade
Your top listened artist is Taylor Swift please shut the f*** up.
right to my spotify top artists huh
you get called out for some ignorant s***, and this is how you decide to respond?
Absolutely nothing wrong with spanking a lil child to let them know what their doing is wrong. Children don’t have common sense or a sense of right or wrong yet so they need discipline. I’ve seen lil kids get cursed out by their parents and I think that’s worse than a spanking.
i'm not totally against corporal punishment, but saying s*** like "beatings aren't physical abuse, look at the real abuse victims" is some ignorant s*** lol
because i haven't seen research advocating for corporal punishment but i don't routinely look into this topic as it doesn't come up in my life hardly ever. simple enough 4 u?
You can say anything can traumatize a child. The simple way we live can f***up a child