I’ve been dating her for 5 months, and everything has been going well. Here’s the kicker, our music taste is like the completely opposite of each other. To give you a picture, I enjoy mostly hip-hop/rap with a touch of R&B. Think of rappers like Schoolboy Q, Zaywop, or Problem. On the flip side, she enjoys either hyper feminist music or calm stuff in the vein of Adele or Teddy Swims.

I don’t think it’s a big deal per se? Whenever I play my s*** in the whip she gets real quiet and sometimes even little uncomfortable with the lyrics. Played RIP Kevin Miller to show her the greatness of Isaiah but the vibes were real real awkward to say the least. However, she did f*** with some calmer or lo-fi instrumentals so that felt good lol.

It is what it is

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I think its fair grounds to break up tbh especially if music is very important to you and you need it to bond with somebody on a deep level. Also if she listens to hyper feminist music, she might be a radical feminist and that can always be super frustrating to deal with personality wise.

Nah brother her personality is amazing, and proudly expressed herself as a feminist which I don’t mind

Same with me and my girl but it really doesn't affect anything. Never had any interest in putting her on to s*** bc I know she's really not that open minded when it comes to music.

as long as youre both open minded I dont see a problem

I think it’s important to have compatible taste of music is a big part of your life

NGL I recently learned I can't be in a relationship that doesn't have the same realm of music taste as me. If I can't bring them to an artist i want to see and I know they aren[t going to like it then we both are going to have a bad time. Music is a big facet to my life so it really depends how much it means to you.

What I mean by the feminist s*** is if she's getting uncomfortable with your music, don't be surprised down the road when she starts to psychoanalyze you and try to find things about you that she thinks is "toxic" or shows you have a "misogynistic" outlook. These feminist types don't believe in staying together, they just get bored of dudes quick and find excuses to make you the problem when they leave.

Dawg if you're going to listen to medium underground (idk how else to describe Q and Zay) most girls you date won't be into them. Music difference is fine. I listen to f***ing JPEGMAFIA lmao but girls I date are open minded and go to shows with me. As long as you give their s*** a chance they should give your s*** a chance

Isaiah Rashad, Schoolboy Q, JID, TDE/Dreamville core music is surprisingly popular with women ime

Eh the woman I’m dating is much older than me, she’s around 50. Understandable she wouldn’t be into those type of artists.

Is she white?

my gf and i also but i like that about us

Yep

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How old are you? Y’all are going to have way bigger differences than just music taste

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I don’t think it’s a big deal unless she’s literally disgusted over it and judges you for listening to “misogynistic” music

Me and my ex who also had an age gap had a pretty different taste in music as well. It's not a big deal as long as there's an underlying respect between the 2 of you.

Yah my experience girls like the smoother rap like Zay but you gotta expect most girls to not be into it by default