Im 23 years old, my whole life my mom has treated me like im some porcelain that can break at the slighest touch, when I have new friends my mom immediately tries to sow discord about how they could be using me, when I go outside after like 9 she acts like i cant walk these streets like a f***ing little girl it makes me so angry, when I was little and all the boys around me were going to soccer and boxing I was never allowed, when I fought my bullies back I got beat like a dog at home and I lost my fighter mentality at a young age, I still love my mom more than anything but these things are only some of the reason im such a dysfunctional adult, I dont know why im saying all of this I guess just needed to vent, anyone relate to this?

do u have siblings ?

move out

She loves you my g

She got her own problems too

Maybe her mom gave her a ton of freedom and she didn’t feel cared for at all

Or maybe ya uncle was freer and started wylin

Everything she doing is because of her life experience

Cherish her care and love and concern for you

Comfort her with phrases like

don’t worry

I’ll text you when I get there

Here’s my eta

Here’s where I am

Etc etc

FaceTime her from the streets let her you know you safe

Ur momma the only person in the world who randomly gonna bring a bowl of fruits to ur room

But move out if u hate it so much

if you live at home you have to move out immediately your situation sounds incredibly oedipal and psychologically damaging

u sound like a b**** kinda

people with good parents will never understand what it means to come from a broken home dont even try to relate to everyone they wont get it

she luv u but if u 23 try to move out at 24 bro
take my advice

Aint none of ya homeboys mama riding for they son the way she riding for you on God you lucky as hell boy it’s motherless nigggaz out here

Yes but they never grew up with me I was basically a only child

Yeah im looking into appartments right now

Yeah I feel like its all cycle of igorance it starts with a person being abused and feeling like ok to abuse another person, i dont know if i will ever have children but if I do I will fight to break the cycle

You probably have to move out if this is a problem for you. If you live at home with your mom then this likely won't change. Your mom wants the best for you and wants to protect you from everything that could potentially harm you, which is understandable - she's your mother.

As long as you live in the same house eating the same food, sitting in the same sofa, s***ting in the same bathroom as her then she's going to treat you like that same kid she brought up in that house.

Only way to have her let go off of the strict leash is to show her that you are an adult capable of caring for yourself and making your own decisions without her around constantly to guide and protect you. The best way to do this is to move out.

I mean

Are you a b****? Maybe she's right yk

Damm nvm op srs kinda sad stay strong bro

good title

Abandon her and heal your masculinity

It just sounds like she over protective

my parents were like this and then when i moved out and got some freedom i was wylin a bit. but it taught me to never parent my kids like that

Find your mom a BF to distract her then move out

Wack 100 is single