Knock her s***
ayo chill
@op allthough your mom has good intentions she seems overbearing and needs to let u go, cut the umbilical chord...
there's no reason for her to be this protective over an adult, overbearing parent's cripple their kids more than they help imo
especially the part where she punished you for defending yourself against bullies and preventing you from getting into sports u liked
u should be able to tell her how u feel about these instances, talk to her in a serious but non-confrontational manner
she needs to understand that birds can't learn how to fly without being pushed out of the nest
She loves you my g
She got her own problems too
Maybe her mom gave her a ton of freedom and she didn’t feel cared for at all
Or maybe ya uncle was freer and started wylin
Everything she doing is because of her life experience
Cherish her care and love and concern for you
Comfort her with phrases like
don’t worry
I’ll text you when I get there
Here’s my eta
Here’s where I am
Etc etc
FaceTime her from the streets let her you know you safe
Thankful for my mom fr
My mom once we hit teenage years kind of treated us like "MEN" you know? But I saw someone die when I was like 15 and when I got home really late I just went inside, slipped into my room, and hoped my mom would check on me. Nothing fam. It was just expected that I could take care of s***, and grown men aren't supposed to go into their mom's room crying to ask for a hug. Move out and gain some independence if you feel that's what you need to do, but appreciate all the love and care you've got, while you've got it.
She loves you my g
She got her own problems too
Maybe her mom gave her a ton of freedom and she didn’t feel cared for at all
Or maybe ya uncle was freer and started wylin
Everything she doing is because of her life experience
Cherish her care and love and concern for you
Comfort her with phrases like
don’t worry
I’ll text you when I get there
Here’s my eta
Here’s where I am
Etc etc
FaceTime her from the streets let her you know you safe
needed this my mom stays on my ass, she can’t even sleep if i ain’t home
Imma keep this short u need to do what u need to do
Ur an adult now. Honestly do what u want f*** what ur mom says. But don't be a dumbass stack your bread so u can move out etc
My parents were perfect so I can't rly complain
Like they got on my brother's ass it taught me to do EVERYTHING right
Not everyone gonna end up where they want to but if u wanna do what u want follow the advice of people who live that life and did it from the ground u
Basically it's just about balance, do the right thinking but don't be a square
@op allthough your mom has good intentions she seems overbearing and needs to let u go, cut the umbilical chord...
there's no reason for her to be this protective over an adult, overbearing parent's cripple their kids more than they help imo
especially the part where she punished you for defending yourself against bullies and preventing you from getting into sports u liked
u should be able to tell her how u feel about these instances, talk to her in a serious but non-confrontational manner
she needs to understand that birds can't learn how to fly without being pushed out of the nest
this @op
I went tot the same thing and eventually left first at 21 , then had to come back for a few months at 24 then never came back again and ill be 30 in a few months
She loves you my g
She got her own problems too
Maybe her mom gave her a ton of freedom and she didn’t feel cared for at all
Or maybe ya uncle was freer and started wylin
Everything she doing is because of her life experience
Cherish her care and love and concern for you
Comfort her with phrases like
don’t worry
I’ll text you when I get there
Here’s my eta
Here’s where I am
Etc etc
FaceTime her from the streets let her you know you safe
F*** that. Move out when you can
i gave my whole family calls after a particularly moving/healing psychedelic experience of mine and I just told them how grateful i was for em and I how much I love em
the next day they all rollin up to my house askin me if i'm okay or if I need help
mfs thought I was suicidal!
You can't be switching up on people like that out of nowhere. You messing up the normal flow, lol.
I'll be honest with you your mom has been observing you your whole life if shes giving you advise take it very seriously
She loves you my g
She got her own problems too
Maybe her mom gave her a ton of freedom and she didn’t feel cared for at all
Or maybe ya uncle was freer and started wylin
Everything she doing is because of her life experience
Cherish her care and love and concern for you
Comfort her with phrases like
don’t worry
I’ll text you when I get there
Here’s my eta
Here’s where I am
Etc etc
FaceTime her from the streets let her you know you safe
Good advice
Hire those kids who whooped their grandmom
ONE GOD DANG KICK! THATS ALL IT TAKES
you will miss that, trust
She gave you the best upbringing she could based on what she knew. You’re old enough to deprogram yourself so it’s up to you now.