Word but if they act like d***heads I'd consider finding new roommates
How much cheaper is the rent than market average @op
Idk I’ve learned that many times it’s just a misunderstanding and miscommunication thing. In the past I’ve been a bit distant to people too at the beginning and I believe many people can be a bit awkward at the beginning. I don’t see this negative. Unfortunately, not many give others some time. I mean, it’s only been a few weeks and you guys live together. They probably tried to connect with you in the first weeks and then gave up as they thought your not that interested just because you are different.
Just be confident and honest around these guys, try to avoid boring small talk. Gift some drinks. You can also just confront them about why they always asking you to leave but of course not in an aggressive way just confident and smile. Don’t overthink things.
@op show your dominance by watching p*** on the tv at full volume while doing nothing
How much cheaper is the rent than market average @op
Well the dorm is like $8,000 per semester and the apartment is $1405 each month so it’s cheaper finding roommates than going the dorm route.
Idk I’ve learned that many times it’s just a misunderstanding and miscommunication thing. In the past I’ve been a bit distant to people too at the beginning and I believe many people can be a bit awkward at the beginning. I don’t see this negative. Unfortunately, not many give others some time. I mean, it’s only been a few weeks and you guys live together. They probably tried to connect with you in the first weeks and then gave up as they thought your not that interested just because you are different.
Just be confident and honest around these guys, try to avoid boring small talk. Gift some drinks. You can also just confront them about why they always asking you to leave but of course not in an aggressive way just confident and smile. Don’t overthink things.
Hopefully this is one of those cases.
I’m just going to indirectly mention attending their events and if they decline then at least I can say I tried.
Well the dorm is like $8,000 per semester and the apartment is $1405 each month so it’s cheaper finding roommates than going the dorm route.
And is this the cheapest apartment you could find?
Aycaramba
Bruh youd be okay with a nigga spilling his seed where you lay your head at?
Niggas have gotten jumped for less
op next time they have a party
!https://youtu.be/GxoaYX5pi7YNah using that audio is crazy jesus christ
Him peaking out his bedroom door to see if you've left is something out of a comedy sitcom with audience laughter and everything 💀💀💀
how is that insane
issa stranger idk, dude never talks to me or any of my friends, and seems to want nothing to do w us. he's gone every weekend too. why tf would i not plan my parties for when he's gone, assuming i've already decided he's not interested.
now lets say ive got my party planned to start when he leaves. maybe my friends want to know when the stranger they don't know is gone so they don't feel like anyone's eavesdropping when they talk. idk, im just spitballing here. point is, if i've planned around this, why tf would i not ask op when he's gonna leave?
i highly highly doubt there's any disrespect intended its probably just logistics. if anything, the roommates probably feel like they're being more respectful by not throwing a party when op's cooped up in his room doing god knows what
bruh aint no reason you should be peeping into a grown mans room asking when is he leaving an apartment he pays for if thats not disrespect what is
How am I supposed to bond with them? I’ve tried everything atp
Idk maybe they don’t care to know you?
bruh aint no reason you should be peeping into a grown mans room asking when is he leaving an apartment he pays for if thats not disrespect what is
but he leaves every weekend anyways how is it disrespectful to ask when
nevermind
I try to avoid being antisocial. Every time I see them I speak and carry on a conversation. It’s not like I’m avoiding them.
What else should I do to bond with them? They know all of my interests already.
damn idk do something together
when u say every time u see them, how frequently is that
Honestly just talk with them. They might be thinking that you don't want to kick it and that's why you stay in your room. Also that might be why they ask to see if your leaving, because they think it bothers tou. If they really didn't give a f*** they'd throw a party and know you'd just stay in your room.
Also you need to assert your dominance in your own home. Next time they throw a party just walk to the fridge butt ass naked. Then place your d*** on the nearest table and stare. Then go to your room. Watch the parties stop.
Also you need to assert your dominance in your own home. Next time they throw a party just walk to the fridge butt ass naked. Then place your d*** on the nearest table and stare. Then go to your room. Watch the parties stop.
Listen to none of these people
Just go turn up with them at next party
true lmfao
"i'll leave when im ready to leave" headass
that's one way to make sure u never invited yeah
This is what I’ve been thinking too 🤔
Next time I see them I’m going to offer to bring some soda or snacks or something. Just to see if they don’t want me there or think I’m not interested
Bring liquor
Your roommates sound cool OP
I'm gonna slide next time they throw a party, I'm gonna crash in your bed if that's cool too
damn idk do something together
when u say every time u see them, how frequently is that
Everyday. We’ll just talk about casual stuff like what we are eating for dinner, upcoming exams, etc
Listen to none of these people
Just go turn up with them at next party
Maybe I should just pop up at their function and invite myself