Oak

1y

Everyday. We’ll just talk about casual stuff like what we are eating for dinner, upcoming exams, etc

Oak

1y

Maybe I should just pop up at their function and invite myself

Gang

1y

Honestly just talk with them. They might be thinking that you don't want to kick it and that's why you stay in your room. Also that might be why they ask to see if your leaving, because they think it bothers tou. If they really didn't give a f*** they'd throw a party and know you'd just stay in your room.

Oak

1y

This is what I’ve been thinking too 🤔

Next time I see them I’m going to offer to bring some soda or snacks or something. Just to see if they don’t want me there or think I’m not interested

TTU

1y

And is this the cheapest apartment you could find?

slimreapercantrap

1y

do u eat dinner together?

Wisdom

1y

Don’t offer soda n snacks bro

Oak

1y

No

slimreapercantrap

1y

ok try that if u can

Vibe

1y

if op is introverted that's fine but they're treating him like s***. like people in this thread have said already, people are probably sleeping in his bed. there's a reason they want him to leave

hope op finds some cool ppl to live with

TTU

1y

OP posted up like

slimreapercantrap

1y

also ngl, if i was like op and had decided i wasn't going to talk to these ppl or make friends w them, then yeah, I'd rather they start getting loud n sht after I leave. I mean damn u would rlly be mad over that?? it's just so hard to understand how getting upset over some inane s*** like this is not p**** behavior.

i know this is some misogynistic sht but where im from they call that acting like a female

Chubby Gambino

1y

Man, wtf is this

mo kream

1y

Bro if somebody repeatedly peaked out to check if I’m gone like a 6 year old I’m asking them what their f***in deal is

Oak

1y

How am I supposed to bond with them? I’ve tried everything atp

Gang

1y

Honestly just talk with them. They might be thinking that you don't want to kick it and that's why you stay in your room. Also that might be why they ask to see if your leaving, because they think it bothers tou. If they really didn't give a f*** they'd throw a party and know you'd just stay in your room.

FOREVA

1y

I‘ma give you some real advice cause I’ve been in a similar situation before @op When I was 19 I moved to a small ass town where I didn’t know anyone for uni. I had 2 chinese roommates and due to my severe depression and anxiety I never talked to them. On weekends I would drive home just like you to meet friends and family. I thought I didn’t need any contacts in my new city, but that’s false. You should definitely go out there and try to kick it with some people. I didn’t learn that they were pretty chill guys until the last week of our semester cuz all of us decided to move out at the same time. From that point on we played cod and smoked every evening lol. I regret not talking to them sooner, but sometimes you have to experience s*** like this to get over yourself. They told me they simply thought I didn’t like them because I didn’t try to speak to them at all. Maybe that’s the case for you as well. If not, f*** em. What I learned from this is I have to live by myself at all times, because home to me is a safe haven where I recharge and don’t have to interact with anyone if I don’t want to. Wish you the best bro

Oak

1y

Well what should I say?

Oak

1y

I eat out and they cook with their air fryer. I’m going to try leaving my room more and communicating more tho