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  • plants 🌻
    Jun 25, 2021

    If anyone wanna read sumn related to this check out The Shallows by Nicholos Carr. Written in 2011 about how the internet affects our brains it's a very good read. Starts off talking about how media influences how we think going all the way back to when the printing press was invented and even earlier how maps and compasses changed the way we think.

    So poignant and from 10 years ago. Things have only gotten worse.

  • Jun 25, 2021
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    plants

    get off it
    spend less time online and more time with friends and family irl
    foster connections with people in your neighborhood
    go on more walks and spend time in parks
    build your local community in any way you can

    thats the thing right, ill feel like a weirdo not having SM.

    Dating and meeting new people esp. Insta is how i connect with ppl and its kinda weird when i see people who dont got one or imagine myself not having one.

  • A Mad Ass Nigga

    This is why I don’t get this site being anti social media while at the same time messing with this site lol. This is way more toxic than Twitter and all that other stuff. I’m starting to think people like the idea of being anonymous and being able to say what they want without having to face real accountability since they’re anonymous.

    Nah, this place is definitely not as toxic as Twitter ( that s*** is on an entirely different level ) but most people that hate on social media also feel like they don’t belong on there, there’s definitely some bias against social media sites but we can all agree that they’re toxic.

    Forums and image boards on the other hand, are worse when it comes to stuff like racism and bad s*** in general, like if you go to 4chan rn you’ll hear some pretty racist s*** because that’s basically the norm there, it’s part of that sites culture. That stuff would never fly on social media apps. One thing that’s important to remember is that all forums have their own culture, while social media apps all basically share the same culture

  • Jun 25, 2021

    How did I know davidP would be the first reply

  • Jun 25, 2021
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    A Mad Ass Nigga

    This is why I don’t get this site being anti social media while at the same time messing with this site lol. This is way more toxic than Twitter and all that other stuff. I’m starting to think people like the idea of being anonymous and being able to say what they want without having to face real accountability since they’re anonymous.

    ktt is not more toxic than twitter or FB.

  • Jun 25, 2021
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    flipflops_

    but it separates actual personalities. you dont got b****es and dude bros being woke and fake af. I've had more REAL convos here than I had with irl ppl on Insta.

    s***s outa wack fam. Mayb just the people i hang out wit iuno.

    You just dont f*** with the culture on social media apps, and i don’t blame you

  • Jun 25, 2021
    Nine Arts Dragon

    You just dont f*** with the culture on social media apps, and i don’t blame you

    i f*** with the good man, accountability, activism n s*** but like theres WAY more dumb s*** on SM. Fake News, Woke s***, Cancel Culture... just to name.

  • Jun 25, 2021
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    Nine Arts Dragon

    I mean technically you can still be anonymous on social media apps, in fact i see more people doing this now, but generally people want to represent themselves on social media sites

    Because they want to be apart of a symbolic exchange and signal their social value.

    People who post personal pictures are trying to reach a kind of social recognition: “look I exist, look I’m doing this too, look I’m enjoying this”… And this, of course, is related to the growing atomization of modern societies. In a small community where people know each other and form bonds, the need to signal your existence isn’t as strong. You signal your individuality by interacting with people who are directly in front of you. These people are your family, your friends, your neighbors and you grew up with them.

    In our current age, people grow up in a city, move to another, are lost in expanding urban areas, go through several jobs etc. You can hardly build meaningful relationships. It’s not impossible but it’s hard. So what can you do to signal your existence? You reify yourself. You hide yourself behind superficial representations shaped by filters, exaggerated facial expressions, a need to perform because you’re filming your own spectacle etc. You disappear behind the window shop that you’ve built for yourself. People don’t see you, they see their own reflections on the window in front of you and so they try to replicate what you’re doing. It’s a constant network of replicated representations.

  • flipflops_

    feels like living in the matrix. Just shows how easily controlled people are.

    I mean I can’t blame people. I am of them. We’re not part of the guys who are making decisions behind closed doors. We’re also influenced and controlled by a bunch of s***. Our level of awareness is maybe more advanced by we’re not free either.

  • plants 🌻
    Jun 25, 2021
    flipflops_

    thats the thing right, ill feel like a weirdo not having SM.

    Dating and meeting new people esp. Insta is how i connect with ppl and its kinda weird when i see people who dont got one or imagine myself not having one.

    The more people that get off the more normal it becomes. You just have to decide what you want to do.

  • Jun 25, 2021
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    soapmanwun

    ktt is not more toxic than twitter or FB.

    yes it is. Open racists, redpill men, always the few cacs playing devils advocate, women hate has gotten worse since 2019. This place is toxic.

  • Jun 25, 2021
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    Niggas on here even gang up on you for not disrespecting women LMAO

  • Jun 25, 2021
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    A Mad Ass Nigga

    yes it is. Open racists, redpill men, always the few cacs playing devils advocate, women hate has gotten worse since 2019. This place is toxic.

    i notice the women hate threads and replies has gotten more over the year, where are these losers coming from man.

  • Jun 25, 2021
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    A Mad Ass Nigga

    yes it is. Open racists, redpill men, always the few cacs playing devils advocate, women hate has gotten worse since 2019. This place is toxic.

    I've seen all of that on SM and worse

    cbjstar.co.uk/2019/03/22/virtuous-paedophile-community-of-maps-create-support-network-on-social-media

  • Jun 25, 2021
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    TheWanderingStars

    Because they want to be apart of a symbolic exchange and signal their social value.

    People who post personal pictures are trying to reach a kind of social recognition: “look I exist, look I’m doing this too, look I’m enjoying this”… And this, of course, is related to the growing atomization of modern societies. In a small community where people know each other and form bonds, the need to signal your existence isn’t as strong. You signal your individuality by interacting with people who are directly in front of you. These people are your family, your friends, your neighbors and you grew up with them.

    In our current age, people grow up in a city, move to another, are lost in expanding urban areas, go through several jobs etc. You can hardly build meaningful relationships. It’s not impossible but it’s hard. So what can you do to signal your existence? You reify yourself. You hide yourself behind superficial representations shaped by filters, exaggerated facial expressions, a need to perform because you’re filming your own spectacle etc. You disappear behind the window shop that you’ve built for yourself. People don’t see you, they see their own reflections on the window in front of you and so they try to replicate what you’re doing. It’s a constant network of replicated representations.

    Very good post man

    Anything i can read to learn more about this stuff?

  • Jun 25, 2021
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    A Mad Ass Nigga

    yes it is. Open racists, redpill men, always the few cacs playing devils advocate, women hate has gotten worse since 2019. This place is toxic.

    Ultimately, it doesn’t matter, man.

    I’m not saying we should condone racism or misogyny. But the fact that we’re all anonymous, the fact that we refuse to attach our faces and our names to this virtual landscape make it pretty much ineffective. It’s just a bunch of idiots who are trying to feel edgy. It doesn’t matter IRL. “Virtual thing, made no sense” as SebastiAn would say.

  • Jun 25, 2021
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    A Mad Ass Nigga

    yes it is. Open racists, redpill men, always the few cacs playing devils advocate, women hate has gotten worse since 2019. This place is toxic.

    Most of the people on here are trolling bro

  • soapmanwun

    I've seen all of that on SM and worse

    https://cbjstar.co.uk/2019/03/22/virtuous-paedophile-community-of-maps-create-support-network-on-social-media/

    Ima read this in a few

  • Nine Arts Dragon

    Very good post man

    Anything i can read to learn more about this stuff?

    “Symbolic Exchange and Death” by Jean Baudrillard. Watch some videos and read some articles about it before reading it, his style is sometimes hard to follow so you’ll need to be introduced to his ideas. He wrote this in the 70s (I think) but you can easily apply it to social media.

  • flipflops_

    i notice the women hate threads and replies has gotten more over the year, where are these losers coming from man.

    That’s what I’ve been wondering. This s*** has gotten out of control. Registration need to be closed forever at this point.

  • Jun 25, 2021
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    flipflops_

    i notice the women hate threads and replies has gotten more over the year, where are these losers coming from man.

    you hit the nail on the head, the whole redpill/loser mentality is growing everywhere on the internet, not just here

  • Jun 25, 2021
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    TheWanderingStars

    Ultimately, it doesn’t matter, man.

    I’m not saying we should condone racism or misogyny. But the fact that we’re all anonymous, the fact that we refuse to attach our faces and our names to this virtual landscape make it pretty much ineffective. It’s just a bunch of idiots who are trying to feel edgy. It doesn’t matter IRL. “Virtual thing, made no sense” as SebastiAn would say.

    That sound good and all but I’m not in the business of calling social media toxic while at the same time pretend the site we’re posting on isn’t more if not just as toxic as said social media sites. It’s just mfs on here can get away with saying off the wall s*** with no real life accountability.

  • Jun 25, 2021
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    Nine Arts Dragon

    Most of the people on here are trolling bro

    Ahhh that makes it alright to be ignorant. As long as they’re “trolling”. You got it figured out big daddy.

  • Jun 25, 2021
    soapmanwun

    you hit the nail on the head, the whole redpill/loser mentality is growing everywhere on the internet, not just here

    imo, i think this was a direct response to the whole p**** hat movement or Fourth Wave Feminism.

    Its really dumb and these losers are just mad they aint gettin some.