I love catching the bullshit guys be doing to me while dating or flirting then I remember I'm guilty of the same s*** with girls in the past.

"U gotta see what's wrong with them and maybe you'll find a wrong with you as well"

I'm lost bro, please explain

I love YOU

Most of the time the things people hate the most are traits they see in themselves tbh

I’ve noticed it’s not uncommon for people here to speak in a thread and not read one word of the op but go off the title alone

They miss you bro

Yes it's real and its effects are as damaging to men and boys as it is to women and queer people.

I take the word as a microagression more than an accepted everyday thing, men aren’t like this 24/7, though I think I can understand why women think that.

It’s a line of thinking where I would have to give up my personal identity to try and fulfill some prophetic masculine quota that’s set in stone when it isn’t.

Cause when someone says their toxic it’s usually from a joke, or something that’s a little too dark, or treats women like objects. When you couple this with s*** shaming it gets way too deep into semantics.

I think it’s real though it’s only so prevalent, only the worst of the worst guys r truly toxic, and I guess some of that language from the extreme toxic fellas translates over to more normal guys and simps.

If we wanna end this line of thinking we gotta think more for what females want, not just what we demand and place on women

why he acting like he's me

i cant stand these centrists bro

But yeah it definitely exists tbh

Cookies quoted me

Maybe you thought much wrong of them than they really are and also maybe they thought of u (the gay person) much wrong thamt they thought u were

It's exact same as racism

U gotta find middle ground

So that's what im saying

I read through the entire thread. There will always be extremists polluting the intentions of every idea. F*** them.

That doesn’t change anything. They’re a separate issue entirely.

Niggas who homophobic secretly gay

if this aint the realest post i ever seen on this site

🐐🐐🐐

part of the reason i dont want to come out of the closet to family (or act how id really want to) is because its always been so much pressure to be "masculine" growing up in family thats all dudes except my mom. not showing any emotion, and some general misogyny and homophobia, "man up" etc

I think the term is used to shame a guy who disagrees with a woman or acts more masculine than the "average guy".

Not always but it happens FOR SURE

You're a victim of that

Its good we r teaching new generation not to bottle up your emotions

I thought about this too

I never did it tho just cause i observed it while it was happening and I never got myself peer pressured into anything or doing something that's "cool" or just acting up cause my boys there

F*** that

Always conversed with a female alone

F*** the hype s***

You're his role model I guess