The Young Blizzard

4y

I mean the problem is like I dont know when a girl likes me or not. Or rather like she just might be being friendly

And like are you saying like girls wait/want for guys to hit on them and stuff?

mothership

4y

There are social cues that they make to signal that they want you to approach them. Typically they’ll just make themselves very available to you and stay attentive. Lots of eye contact and smiles. It’s really not in their nature to approach men first, but some of these GI Joe b****es out here will actually aggressively approach you and outright let you know they’re interested

Oblivion X

4y

Yeah that can get tricky but there are some signs that can tell u ur she feeling u in that type of way.

And not neccesarily more so that they have no reason to make that first move because guys are more than willing to do it themselves.

The Young Blizzard

4y

I mean, so? That can apply to just a girl whose just being friendly

The Young Blizzard

4y

i mean, i see it as a disadvantage

Is it socially acceptable to approach girls I like? Like what if it comes off creepy or whatever, than youre canceled

The Young Blizzard

4y

Well, from my perspective as a guy, i rather not

Edit: Because if i like a girl and she isnt inteerested in me, she could think im being creepy

FREE

4y

He spit in OP face

etant

4y

I think some girls might think they are a hoe if they approach first?

Nah b, don't think like that. look out for social cues and you'll know when you are overstaying your welcome. And relax lol, no one will cancel you if you just say hi lol.

If you value yourself, you won't think that you are creepy. Think you should do some self improvement if you think that way.

Oblivion X

4y

Then you'll most likely not get anywhere a lot of guys miss out due to not being able to make the first move its just something u gotta get used to doing

Oblivion X

4y

Then you'll most likely not get anywhere a lot of guys miss out due to not being able to make the first move its just something u gotta get used to doing

Swope

4y

women make moves too
they think about you really hard and if you don't get it then thats on you

The Young Blizzard

4y

How am i supposed to know that?

mothership

4y

Ehh you can usually tell the difference between friendliness and overt flirting

The Young Blizzard

4y

I mean i guess its just like wouldn't a girl be mad if a guy approached her and stuff?

PNW

4y

This me, I missed out on multiple opportunities in the past cuz I was so stubborn. Thing is even if they show interested you still have to make effort on your part, learned my lesson the hard way.

F*** I been kicking myself for how much of a dumbass I was

mothership

4y

There are social cues that they make to signal that they want you to approach them. Typically they’ll just make themselves very available to you and stay attentive. Lots of eye contact and smiles. It’s really not in their nature to approach men first, but some of these GI Joe b****es out here will actually aggressively approach you and outright let you know they’re interested

Oblivion X

4y

I mean depends on how u do it. If u walk up to a stranger minding their business, yeah. If ur in some chill setting or party/bar then u can chopped it up with someone then go from there

But when I say make the first move it doesnt have to be a cold approach. U can already know the person and they're feeling u, u can make the move by texting her or whatever

The Young Blizzard

4y

I mean yeah i guess

But wouldn't it be worse if i already knew them? It be surprising than?