Ofcourse, woman need more validation than men. But women do approach men.
Doesn't happen as much any more since I'm in married but my wife and the women before her always approached me, and their reason was that they liked what I was doing/carrying myself.
I love women but I try to come across as if I don't really give a f*** about women you feel me? They like that s***.
They shoot their shot but you gotta catch it quick.

You're right. It's true like 99% of the time tho.

how is it validating for a girl if a guy is attracted to them? If their ugly they hsouldnt care

This is a fallacy. If you’re a pmf, you’ll have girls asking for your number first every few months at a minimum. At least on a college campus pre covid.

It's easy. Eye contact. If you guys lock eyes enough times where it's not a coincidence, then it's good sign. Unless obvs you got something on your face or acting wild.

If you guys lock eyes and both of y'all are smiling at each other, that's basically already in the bag.

It's not always true and depends on other factors

Ok, ill admit maybe i should have framed this as "socially expected for guys to make the first move"

so what? she might just be being firendly

Lmao bro stop

If you at a function and you and a shorty keep staring at each other, you really think she trying to be your friend?

Idk, maybe

Plenty of men and women are just friends with each other, and im sure when talking they smile at each other

Eh it’s hard to say I guess. Kinda situational.

@OP please don’t take my post as calling you ugly or something like that because that’s not at all what I was doing! I was just saying when you present yourself in a more approachable manner you may start to notice women coming onto you a bit more. But tbh it can still be very confusing differentiating between friendly and flirty.

It ok

Idk wym by present myself as more approachable, can I have an example

Might also be a cultural thing too
I only know how black woman are and they approach

I don't really believe in 98% of men and women friendship. If one wants to the f*** other if given a chance that ain't called friendship lol.

Out of all the female friend I have, they were all someone I tried to get with, then eventually I don't find them attractive and they become my friend.

And bro I'm not talking about when you and a female friend are chatting and each of you smiling that means she's into you

What I'm talking about is when you lock eyes with a girl you never met before. If y'all never met before and she staring and smiling at you, thats as good of a signal as you're gonna get. Unless obvs she approaches lol

I have never made the first move.

Every girl I’ve ever been with has either asked me out, or gave me their number.

Usually because I’m so socially awkward that I end up unintentionally doing something that they interpret as me flirting, when usually it was genuinely an accident.

I mean ok

Just it hard rn with covid, cant read peoples facial features that much

Oh yea bro, that's a L. I just been living the life of solitude, not looking for any girls rn. I'll soon be going to China and there all the clubs are open so I'll enjoy myself then. If you in the US supposedly by end of July it'd be Gucci

I dont have any friends that go clubbing, how would i even get in?

I wouldn’t consider myself a PMF and I’ve had women bluntly state/show their Interest in me, it’s about the energy you put off. I’m not tall either

You probably put yourselves in situations where you were talking to women

Pre covid i didnt even really introduce myself or start talking to girls

Manlets keep taking Ws

Uhhh bro idk what to tell you, if you feel confident enough to go clubbing by yourself you could. But just know you are there to dance and nothing else, if not you're gonna be disappointed if you don't manage to hook up. Plus if you go clubbing and you social like that you always end up meeting ppl. I mean if you pay cover fee, dress nicely, at legal age, and you don't go to a uptight club, they will let you in.