you're going in circles. you're chopping down the advice being given to you with the same s*** attitude thats got you no b****es "she might just see me as a friend". Jus don't be the type of guy she sees as a friend, and if you're honestly the type of guy a woman is going to see as a friend you could benefit from adding some different moves to your character. you have to have a certain wind about you man idk what to tell ya at this point
Well the thing is I don’t know if I’m the kind of guy a girl would see as a friend, like I said if I think a girl is flirting with me I’ll assume I’m just reading into it too much, and that she actually sees me as jsut a friend
sme girl
Yeah, so from her perspective, she matched with this guy she liked from class and was waiting to me to bring it up. When we matched we didn’t talk about school. It was just about life and hobbies and such.
wym?
I’ll use an example from my life lol
Girl walks up and asks for a cigarette. I’ve never seen this girl before, wasn’t a mutual friend or acquaintance. While smoking we talked and one thing led to another
But she technically made the first move by asking me for the ciggy. And that’s kind of the way some girls maneuver with their moves. They basically put themselves in a position to be talked to without being forward.
For her to ask me for a ciggy means she 1) was interested enough to observe me and saw I smoked, 2) found me approachable enough that she felt comfortable asking me for one, 3) chose to bypass all the people she was there with who also smoked to ask me, a stranger, for one.
Obviously this isn’t always the case and not every girl asking for a lighter is trying to get laid
How am I supposed to know if a girl likes me or not?
Is she moving her hair out of her face?
Is she making eye contact for extended amounts of time?
Is she bringing up sexual matters/relationship stuff (even if not pertaining to yall) in conversation?
Does she seem like she wants to be talking to you, or like she’s just tolerating you?
Has a friend come and tried to sweep her away and she ignored friend and instead stayed talking to you?
If she is leaving, has she made any attempt to let you know where she’s heading/invited you/given you some Avenue of contact before leaving?
If you can answer yes to at least 2 of these things she likes you. if you can answer yes to 4 or more, you’re about to get laid
I got a homie who I’ve watched literally walk into a room and do nothing and get numbers lmfao
@op have u ever put any if the advice you get on here in action ?
I’ll use an example from my life lol
Girl walks up and asks for a cigarette. I’ve never seen this girl before, wasn’t a mutual friend or acquaintance. While smoking we talked and one thing led to another
But she technically made the first move by asking me for the ciggy. And that’s kind of the way some girls maneuver with their moves. They basically put themselves in a position to be talked to without being forward.
For her to ask me for a ciggy means she 1) was interested enough to observe me and saw I smoked, 2) found me approachable enough that she felt comfortable asking me for one, 3) chose to bypass all the people she was there with who also smoked to ask me, a stranger, for one.
Obviously this isn’t always the case and not every girl asking for a lighter is trying to get laid
Oh!
@op have u ever put any if the advice you get on here in action ?
Yeah, like I said I asked out a girl from work earlier this week, but she had a bf
And I met another girl last week from tinder, she was an anti mask, anti vaxx trump supporter
Is she moving her hair out of her face?
Is she making eye contact for extended amounts of time?
Is she bringing up sexual matters/relationship stuff (even if not pertaining to yall) in conversation?
Does she seem like she wants to be talking to you, or like she’s just tolerating you?
Has a friend come and tried to sweep her away and she ignored friend and instead stayed talking to you?
If she is leaving, has she made any attempt to let you know where she’s heading/invited you/given you some Avenue of contact before leaving?
If you can answer yes to at least 2 of these things she likes you. if you can answer yes to 4 or more, you’re about to get laid
Ahh I see
Yeah, like I said I asked out a girl from work earlier this week, but she had a bf
And I met another girl last week from tinder, she was an anti mask, anti vaxx trump supporter
good on you bro i'm glad to here. keep shooting. it's a numbers game. you'll start to figure things out with time and experience
it isn't but expect to make the first move 70% of the time.
alternatively become more in shape/handsome and bring that percentage down to 50%. good luck
My ex made a move first
Otherwise I wouldn’t dated her.
More women should approach guys that they like.
If you're attractive then you know that this isn't true
Lmao would love to see the people who are quoting this.
thats not them making a move, thats helping put you in position to make a move
and even than, they could have just been as friends
Lmao would love to see the people who are quoting this.
If you don’t have any girls making the first move on you then just say that
If you don’t have any girls making the first move on you then just say that
Why would I say that?