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  • Mar 31, 2021

    Because you ain’t a little b****, are you? Women are the gatekeepers of sex, most of the time we are down tremendously and they know that. They like it that way and we are too h**** for it to ever change.

  • Mar 31, 2021
    gonetillnovember

    im actually not sure of what you're saying here

    If she's really into you, or the other way around, it's hard to play cool and chill. I thought you were talking about people just clearly being into each other.

    Obviously there's women out there who are a lot more aggressive and just pursue the guy till they get what they want. That can be fun if you're on the other end of it but most women aren't like that, or at least don't have the confidence to be.

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    idk man my whole thing is if a woman is attracted to you she will either put moves on you or make it ridiculously easy for you to put moves on her. Thats all you need to know really. Most women will make it known that they find you attractive (given a good enough setting of course) put it simply NEVER PURSUE WITHOUT ATTRACTION CONFIRMATION FIRST

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    The Young Blizzard

    But just talking to a woman doesn’t indicate to a woman that I’d be interested in getting to know her more

    Then tell her how you feel.

    If you're just yourself and be confident and direct, the odds will be in your favor eventually.

  • Mar 31, 2021
    Urameshii

    Y’all really overthinking it

  • Mar 31, 2021
    gonetillnovember

    idk man my whole thing is if a woman is attracted to you she will either put moves on you or make it ridiculously easy for you to put moves on her. Thats all you need to know really. Most women will make it known that they find you attractive (given a good enough setting of course) put it simply NEVER PURSUE WITHOUT ATTRACTION CONFIRMATION FIRST

    #ATTRACTIONCONFIRMATION haha i love that!

  • Mar 31, 2021
    rozco

    If a girl wants you to approach her, 9/10 they'll send out a signal and if you pick up on it that's your moment to capitalize. Problem is most guys don't pick up on this stuff or are too insecure (we've all been there) and a lot fo the time girls hints are so subtle it's hard to tell.

    You just have to put yourself in their shoes for a second: any half decent looking girl has been hit on every single day of their life, multiple times a day, since they were teenagers. So if you see a girl who you want to talk to and she gives you any sort of opening, just go for it and be yourself and she's either gonna continue the convo or give you the cold shoulder. All you can do is try.

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    I matched with a girl in my class on hinge and didn’t realize she was in my class. She did know this and waited for me to bring it up in class two weeks later. Some girls just want you to put in a little bit of work.

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    Stantm4444

    I matched with a girl in my class on hinge and didn’t realize she was in my class. She did know this and waited for me to bring it up in class two weeks later. Some girls just want you to put in a little bit of work.

    why did you wait 2 weeks?

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    rozco

    Then tell her how you feel.

    If you're just yourself and be confident and direct, the odds will be in your favor eventually.

    Why would just letting a girl know I like her do to help her like me back?

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    BVL

    why did you wait 2 weeks?

    I didn’t know it was the same girl

  • Mar 31, 2021
    rozco

    If a girl wants you to approach her, 9/10 they'll send out a signal and if you pick up on it that's your moment to capitalize. Problem is most guys don't pick up on this stuff or are too insecure (we've all been there) and a lot fo the time girls hints are so subtle it's hard to tell.

    You just have to put yourself in their shoes for a second: any half decent looking girl has been hit on every single day of their life, multiple times a day, since they were teenagers. So if you see a girl who you want to talk to and she gives you any sort of opening, just go for it and be yourself and she's either gonna continue the convo or give you the cold shoulder. All you can do is try.

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    Seems like we’ve had an interestingly high amount of threads on approaches recently

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    The Young Blizzard

    Why would just letting a girl know I like her do to help her like me back?

    brooo this is what were telling you. you're in the wrong game. you should never be trying to get anybody to "like you" let alone some girl you don't even know. you're supposed to find a girl that you KNOW likes you and sieze the opportunity.

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    gonetillnovember
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    brooo this is what were telling you. you're in the wrong game. you should never be trying to get anybody to "like you" let alone some girl you don't even know. you're supposed to find a girl that you KNOW likes you and sieze the opportunity.

    How am I supposed to know if a girl likes me or not?

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    The Young Blizzard

    How am I supposed to know if a girl likes me or not?

    YOU WILL KNOW

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    gonetillnovember

    YOU WILL KNOW

    Man she could just be friendly

    Like If I’m talking to a girl and she’s not ignoring me or acting disinterested she might just see me as a friend

  • Mar 31, 2021

    women be like “i hate you don’t talk to me” and act like we’re supposed to figure out that means they like us

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    The Young Blizzard

    Man she could just be friendly

    Like If I’m talking to a girl and she’s not ignoring me or acting disinterested she might just see me as a friend

    you're going in circles. you're chopping down the advice being given to you with the same s*** attitude thats got you no b****es "she might just see me as a friend". Jus don't be the type of guy she sees as a friend, and if you're honestly the type of guy a woman is going to see as a friend you could benefit from adding some different moves to your character. you have to have a certain wind about you man idk what to tell ya at this point

  • Mar 31, 2021
    YANDHI

    Seems like we’ve had an interestingly high amount of threads on approaches recently

    Pandemic has the mandem down bad contemplating their own social skills

  • What happened to being an alpha male now u don't want to step up to the plate

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    Mar 31, 2021

    op never been to a sadies hawkin dance and it shows

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    etant

    They can and some will. but don't you think it's pretty blessed that as a guy it's way more socially acceptable to approach a girl you like?

    That’s a silly statement.
    Everyone has free will so to say it’s a blessing to be able to approach a woman first is silly.

    However I will say that just because it’s socially preferred for the man to ask out the woman doesn’t make the process and less difficult.

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    Women ALWAYS shoot their shot whether verbal or nonverbal. They make it pretty damn obvious too

    “Men have to shoot their shot cause women don’t” is a dream, a LIE sold to ugly niggas who don’t wanna put the work in to be sexier

    - BRAVE

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