Knx

1w

Doesn’t want attention.

Proceeds to post pics of himself.

Chilla

1w

You need to sit down and ask yourself if you even want a long term serious relationship or if you just want to jump from one 10/10 model to the next. If you just want the latter then you are not ready for the former.

I only needed to date 1 girl with a pretty face and s***ty personality to learn that I need more than just a nice exterior when it comes to a serious relationship. She needs to have certain qualities in her personality. Her face and body cannot excuse or substitute her behavior and personality forever.

I don’t care how fine a woman is if she’s gonna be a headache, if she isn’t humble, if she doesn’t respect me, if she isn’t loving and caring and grateful. At the end of the day it will not be worth it. You need more substance, at least if you’re looking for something long term.

You need a woman who actually, genuinely cares for you and has the qualities of a wife and a mother. One that selflessly fills you up, not one that drains you. One that you can pour into because you genuinely love and appreciate her and you want to cultivate her qualities and bring out the best in her. She waters you and you water her and you watch each other grow together. You work for the wellbeing of each other. You selflessly love and serve each other.

A lot of beautiful 10/10 women have been able to rely on their looks to get around town and thus they haven’t had to develop a personality with the type of qualities that you actually want and value in a woman. Their beauty grants them lots of attention and opportunities before they even open their mouths, so they don’t have the same need to develop their personality.

FOREVA

1w

this the one op

Water Giver

1w

was gonna say lol

yeah nigga ugly to YOU

Water Giver

1w

also wild how "attractive"means auto bad and "ugly" means auto good

how bout you go to a different circle of people or a different ocean of fish lmao

so much to unpack here

TheRocket64

1w

Same bro ugh

I'm scared that I will always be like this and will end up like Leonardo DiCaprio dating people half my age meanwhile all of my friends are married with families

Undecided

1w

Stop dating over looks and start dating women who you would be comfortable to raise your kids.

Undecided

1w

But this. I couldn’t figure out how to say it nicely.

TheRocket64

1w

I want to but the entire problem is my standards are so cooked now I literally can’t find myself physicallyattracted to anyone who doesn’t have “model-level” beauty

So I was curious if it’s even possible to re-wire my mind or if I just have to eventually “settle” even if I might not find someone physically attractive

WASHINGTON

1w

For someone I've been lowkey rooting for on here for decade plus, kinda bummed out to read this. Hope it works out OP!

There's some useful advice itt.

Liking or wanting only 10/10s is not a unique desire. Everybody wants 10s. I think you're putting too much stock into you having high standards.

You're also not going to get any happiness out of chasing things and people to satiate your ego. I think that's what you mean when you're saying you only desire a certain type of women. I reckon it's typically one that, in your circle, will validate your image the most.

You also shouldn't give up on people easily and treat them like a checklist to go through. Usually the tendency to search flaws and reject possibilities quickly is in fact a problem not of looking for the right person but of avoiding love

TheRocket64

1w

I'm in NYC (a lot of people) and work in the fashion field (I have to interact with models on a daily basis)

cotton

1w

bro was genuinely coming here looking for constructive help so I pray he gets it rather than just taking the people joking on him.

I think I said something genuinely constructive even if it might be uh... blunt ,

//

yesac

1w

Yup, most people's problems (OP's included) can be solved by chilling the f*** out and slowing down, life shouldn't be that serious

yesac

1w

Last sentence is spot on, it's pure projection, if it's not their looks he has a problem with it's their "red flags" or "baggage", which are something literally everyone has in some shape or from from virtue of living their life

yesac

1w

There are no wise words to stop you from being a self sabotaging loser, the first step is you have to stop taking yourself so seriously cause no one is really that important and special

TheRocket64

1w

Thanks so much bro I really appreciate all the positive energy

I’ve been on KTT/KTT2 forever but I sometimes forget how brutal some people can be on here

Water Giver

1w

its also the space he's obviously in

"10/10 models that have done billboards and etc."

there are "10/10"girls that exist outside that line of work, its your space

no s*** a hyper competitive and vain market such as modeling will attract mostly the s***tiest people because theyre the only ones willing to deal with that mess and chaos - or if he;s only going after rich snobs that never had to do anything that are "10/10"

while a "10/10" being a doctor/teacher/secretary etc. are less likely to be "shitty" - or the "10/10"that had fight their way to go to college etc.

its not so much "pretty = bad & ugly = good", its moreso the environment and space you are finding these women in

theres pretty women everywhere in all facets - its your own fault for settling for the s***ty ones

its like the losers crying about how no women want them but theyre ONLY focused on Miami women that are p***stars and e-celebs lmao when there is so much more out there

his whole op statement is so stupid and comes off like a nigga that hasnt lived much or talked to many people

lil ufo

1w

my pops told me an important thing when I was a kid

physical beauty fades away, only what's inside your heart and brain remains

it's just this simple

yesac

1w

I agree with the sentiment of broadening your horizons, but to me it sounds like OP specifically is someone that values status so he wouldn't be compatible with a "10/10" girl that lives in the suburbs and has a "boring" life (office job, go to the gym, eat dinner, watch a TV show and have an early night)

There are sooooo many of those kinds of girls and they deserve to be with people that want the same things, if OP is convinced he wants to work in fashion and be seen as "cool" and "eclectic" (which means his girlfriend would be too) then he has to grow up and realise everyone is gonna have baggage according to someone else's standards, you have to love people in spite of that because No one is perfect!

Peezy

1w

I feel you @op feel like I be dealing with this too

I work in fashion too lol dealing with models and designers all day sure doesn’t help 😅

cotton

1w

its this established and understood level of shallowness in the fashion industry that make me kinda understand where he coming from to a degree //

Classique

1w

damn i’ve never seen anyone im really attracted to at bible study i gotta branch out more

TITOWORLD

1w

I need pics of these girls OP. U might think they a 10 but that doesn't mean they objectively are