You wanna race?
ya but if we run
We also (least imo) need to have a real honest conversation on how public school be cultivating a culture of isolation.
Coming from a private school background, public high school was a mind f***. Niggas having anxiety to read a simple essay in front of a classroom was new to me
definitely part of it. so many people have issue with the public school system, especially those that move around schools and states. i personally met most of my friends through the public school system, so cant really speak on it though
which third spaces specifically?
Cafes, town squares, public seating, libraries, etc etc etc
New study finds 98% of women have a best friend, vs only 85% of men
https://www.psychnewsdaily.com/women-are-more-likely-than-men-to-say-they-have-a-best-friend/
interesting
Interesting
I wonder what the figures would look like when asked how long they’ve been best friends
Why don’t I have friends 😭
^ b****es about politics and capitalism non stop
Bro is mad that we are discussing systems of organization in a sociopolitical thread
Our idea of what a close friend is has definitely changed too. People are far more proud to say “I don’t have a lot of close friends” as to seem more real or down to earth. There’s been a cultural shift of people just being less earnest in the US in general, so it’s no surprise that people back in 1990 probably were more eager to embrace friendship
Imo
And to add: I’ve seen the shift in real time. I’m only 25 so it’s been a very recent phenomenon
The US has been going through an anti-sincerity phase socially and culturally, and I don’t even think this is a worldwide problem either
Interesting
I wonder what the figures would look like when asked how long they’ve been best friends
I used to think like this too til a homegurl who’s had and lost close friends f***ed me up on this:
Talking about, “reason yall friendships last so long is y’all don’t talk about s***. Of course yall never get into big fights when yall don’t know each other at all.”
New study finds 98% of women have a best friend, vs only 85% of men
https://www.psychnewsdaily.com/women-are-more-likely-than-men-to-say-they-have-a-best-friend/
interesting
I guess if asked I'd say I don't have a best friend cause all those close to me I don't like the idea of ranking one above all the others cause legit they're all very important to me. But gun to my head I suppose I do have one person in mind
I used to think like this too til a homegurl who’s had and lost close friends f***ed me up on this:
Talking about, “reason yall friendships last so long is y’all don’t talk about s***. Of course yall never get into big fights when yall don’t know each other at all.”
She’s tripping
I’ve gotten into fistfights with my best friends and we’ve been together for over a decade
Now I’m thinking about my stats here. Do coworkers count How friendly we talking
: Do people you occasionally hang out with mutual friends count
She’s tripping
I’ve gotten into fistfights with my best friends and we’ve been together for over a decade
nah fr I broke my hand in a fight wit my best friend when we was growing up
Multiple group chats and long DM conversations, men and women included.
If we dont talk, it’s cause life has gotten busy for one of us but we usually get back like no time was ever lost.
Those the best friendships >>>>
I definitely have more than 10 good friends I think most ppl do but we don't be talking like that
I don't rly have a strong friend group tho most my friends made other friends who hang more. I'm like a bottom tier nba player bouncing team to team pause
I guess if asked I'd say I don't have a best friend cause all those close to me I don't like the idea of ranking one above all the others cause legit they're all very important to me. But gun to my head I suppose I do have one person in mind
similarly although i def would still have one.
shocks me because most women i've gotten close with in life always seemingly struggled with friendships, but i guess it does make sense because they always had ONE bestfriend that was never going anywhere.
not while atthepyramids is on this earth they’re not!
YESSIRSKI !!!
We also (least imo) need to have a real honest conversation on how public school be cultivating a culture of isolation.
Coming from a private school background, public high school was a mind f***. Niggas having anxiety to read a simple essay in front of a classroom was new to me
Most people would say the opposite tbh
Also private school is a scam, definitely not better than public net large
She’s tripping
I’ve gotten into fistfights with my best friends and we’ve been together for over a decade
Shes not talkin bout emotional sincere niggas like us vro.
She’s referring moreso to the men that's just talk about sports and women and nothing else deep or personal. Ive had those too (moreso in high school) and them s***s was boring to me.