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Wrongs thread

He looks like one of those gays who does “Str8 p***” and before they start go like “ugh I’ve never done this before ☺️“ and they have that Anderson cooper giggle right after

Lmfaooo

That was his issue, he tried to hard to be his idea of masculine, tried to be much more of a “man” than his dad was, says his dad always cried in front of his mom which a man should never do. He blamed all of his childhood drama on his father.
Like i said earlier though, multiple things went into his destruction, but his masculinity issues was a major part of it

But since I’m here

There’s no such thing lmao

Women can do s*** like this too

yea I got you. However I would debate that its LACK of masculinity that leads to these issues, and not an abundance of it.

For example if you feel constantly threatened by other men and have to prove yourself/overcompensate that's reflective of you not having a healthy amount of masculinity. Just offering another perspective

That’s very descriptive

Yea he was fairly good looking guy and apparently he had money too? Yea, if he wasn't having any success he was just a straight up damaged person.

Okay? I’ve had civil conversations about this with “toxic” niggas that have gone both ways. I used to be toxic myself.

Your point was that it was needed and all I’m saying is that yes masculinity is needed to maintain the balance in life, toxic masculinity is something separate and by definition disrupting that very balance.

I f***ed a D.L. youtuber one time

this segway

of course he was a bratty bottom too it always seems to be that every time

What you described is also toxic masculinity. Toxic masculinity isn’t just being too manly, it’s a complete distortion of the sense of self (for men); Imbalance.

The term may sound annoying, it can very much is a buzzword these days, but trying to skrrt around it is just wasting time. This goes for a lot of words that people feel attacked by.

We need to stop letting extremists get to our heads and distract us from potential growth that we’re very much capable of achieving. It just takes a little humility.

lmfao insecure cuck

why am i insecure?

Straight white males tend to do very “sus” things together and jokes They’re not as aggressive towards each other unless it’s someone they genuinely don’t like for some reason
Scream and berate women in public

While black males
Have to prove how tough they are
Have to retaliate to disrespect either verbally or physically
No gay or feminine anything

Both can be very misogynistic

I mean ya but people gotta realize sometimes jokes between friends are just jokes. always weird to me when I hear a guy say "locker room talk" isn't a thing like ya it is you just dont have friends.

I might not go that far to say that, but wearing flowers and dresses or whatever has nothing to do with what you previously described as healthy masculinity. Appearing masculine and being masculine are again two different things. You could go full black AF1 style and still be the biggest p**** on the block.

Acting like appearance matters does comes off as insecure, a lot of the time it is. But I’d say misinformed.

this guy came out of nowhere saying im insecure, i just questioned him. but his ig page probably doesnt feature him on..

i didnt say flowery dresses = no toxic masculinity. I literally described it as just ONE part of the agenda of the de-masculinasation of men

that's so true, there's a lot of jokes with "gay" undertones that my white friends will do that would definitely not fly with my ethnic friends

last part

I had to be careful with these