i wanna be a femboy warrior and i’m not gonna let you stop me
I was gonna make a joke but I'll keep the problematic s\*\*\* in MSCT
maybe its a word used to shame men who act... toxic
What's your definition of acting toxic? is there a universal one we could teach to everyone or does it depend on the leniency of each individual (or community for that matter).
No,
I feel like it's just word that it's used to shame men who act a certain way.
Elaborate.
Talking about it around guys >> talking about it around a woman that isn't your relative, cause it can be thrown back in your face.
maybe i should have said i don’t really talk about my feelings around my friends except one very close friend who just happens to be a girl
Thread is having an actual in-depth discussion and hasn't gone to utter s*** yet
I was gonna make a joke but I'll keep the problematic s\*\*\* in MSCT
tell free to let me in 😡
One problem I have is how often everything that is just simple male behavior (like a handshake or dap) is seen as toxic masculinity.
I don't want to hear a woman's take on what being a man is, because who am I to say what a woman is
yea, i mean toxic masculinity definitely exists (although i think the term should be modified), but people take it too far to the point where anything that can be interpreted as “manly” is toxic
maybe i should have said i don’t really talk about my feelings around my friends except one very close friend who just happens to be a girl
That can be dangerous but if you trust her, I hope you made the right choice in confiding in her.
Thread is having an actual in-depth discussion and hasn't gone to utter s*** yet
Feminism created toxic masculinity
Go ahead and explain, this is a safe space.
i did a few points down. toxic masculinity has bad traits for sure. but also has good traits which has allowed us to be here till this day in society.
Bad traits should be removed completely. for the sake of peoples mental healths and safety apparently (since people ITT are saying men get angry with toxic masculinity and go and kill someone ??? or maybe they are just crazy murderers?)
Good traits should be kept. These traits shouldn't be chosen by females but by men... and shouldn't be demonised by the media. The world needs tough/dominant characters. men are supposed to protect the family no?
yea, i mean toxic masculinity definitely exists (although i think the term should be modified), but people take it too far to the point where anything that can be interpreted as “manly” is toxic
Which is corny, and once again shows people lack nuance, not everything is black and white.
i did a few points down. toxic masculinity has bad traits for sure. but also has good traits which has allowed us to be here till this day in society.
Bad traits should be removed completely. for the sake of peoples mental healths and safety apparently (since people ITT are saying men get angry with toxic masculinity and go and kill someone ??? or maybe they are just crazy murderers?)
Good traits should be kept. These traits shouldn't be chosen by females but by men... and shouldn't be demonised by the media. The world needs tough/dominant characters. men are supposed to protect the family no?
just curious what are the good traits and why should men portray them rather than other genders
No,
I feel like it's just word that it's used to shame men who act a certain way.
People do use this out of context to insult someone.
that’s toxic behavior in itself.
i did a few points down. toxic masculinity has bad traits for sure. but also has good traits which has allowed us to be here till this day in society.
Bad traits should be removed completely. for the sake of peoples mental healths and safety apparently (since people ITT are saying men get angry with toxic masculinity and go and kill someone ??? or maybe they are just crazy murderers?)
Good traits should be kept. These traits shouldn't be chosen by females but by men... and shouldn't be demonised by the media. The world needs tough/dominant characters. men are supposed to protect the family no?
Men are brought to not express their emotions like women do, which would be fine except those emotions are practically non-existent, anything other than anger is considered "girly" or "acting like a woman"
reading this thread and just