Jan 31, 2024·3 replies
EzioHow do you win ? Not how do you leave, how do you win ?
it’s a losing battle my dawg. to “win” is to suffer forever through a one-sided relationship.
- Ezio 🎰Jan 31, 2024russianbot23
it’s a losing battle my dawg. to “win” is to suffer forever through a one-sided relationship.
Making her lose is enough
- Ezio 🎰Jan 31, 2024russianbot23
it’s a losing battle my dawg. to “win” is to suffer forever through a one-sided relationship.
I don’t even really mean that
OPJan 31, 2024russianbot23it’s a losing battle my dawg. to “win” is to suffer forever through a one-sided relationship.
wow man this deep
Jan 31, 2024·1 reply
dicedyeah, they were a pathological liar as well. Its hard to cut off their love bombing and deal with hoovering. was probably lowest ive been in life
Yep one of my BPD exes is still stalking me 6mo later using burners to check my ig comments and follow every girl that says something positive
And you go nuts dealing with it because rationality and logic are out the window with them- Jan 31, 2024·1 replyawawh
Yep one of my BPD exes is still stalking me 6mo later using burners to check my ig comments and follow every girl that says something positive
And you go nuts dealing with it because rationality and logic are out the window with themexactly. she got her new boyfriend to send thousands of empty unfolded boxes to my house because shes still not over it.
Jan 31, 2024I had a girl once whom I love a lot. The love of my life, I'd say. She has social anxiety. I wasn't experienced enough to deal with it properly.
- Jan 31, 2024·1 replydiced
exactly. she got her new boyfriend to send thousands of empty unfolded boxes to my house because shes still not over it.
Sorry you’ve gone through the same s*** man 🫂 Did you deal w the suicide stuff too
Jan 31, 2024·edited·1 replyI've seen BPD, bipolar, OCD, ASPD, psychosis, NPD, severe depression (but the kind that manifests in outwardly unhealthy behaviour and habits that affect others like threatening to kill themselves) and severe anxiety absolutely destroy people and relationships beyond repair. I can tell you countless stories from every relationship.
Unless you're prepared to face the extreme challenges, I highly advise you not to engage -- I say this as a woman who was diagnosed with severe depression, severe anxiety, and ADHD+autism who's partner is still learning to cope with these things.
I also have several longterm close friends and acquaintances who have NPD, BPD, and bipolar disorder, and it's really rough to see. I've also lost two very close friends to suicide due to mental illness, and the mark that it left on their romantic partners was devastating. I've seen so many people getting hurt and actually damaged as people over the years.
No p**** is worth the very likely complications you will face, but if you really love the person and are willing to work with them to create a healthy relationship, that's amazing and I wish you all the best :)
- OPJan 31, 2024ellie
I've seen BPD, bipolar, OCD, ASPD, psychosis, NPD, severe depression (but the kind that manifests in outwardly unhealthy behaviour and habits that affect others like threatening to kill themselves) and severe anxiety absolutely destroy people and relationships beyond repair. I can tell you countless stories from every relationship.
Unless you're prepared to face the extreme challenges, I highly advise you not to engage -- I say this as a woman who was diagnosed with severe depression, severe anxiety, and ADHD+autism who's partner is still learning to cope with these things.
I also have several longterm close friends and acquaintances who have NPD, BPD, and bipolar disorder, and it's really rough to see. I've also lost two very close friends to suicide due to mental illness, and the mark that it left on their romantic partners was devastating. I've seen so many people getting hurt and actually damaged as people over the years.
No p**** is worth the very likely complications you will face, but if you really love the person and are willing to work with them to create a healthy relationship, that's amazing and I wish you all the best :)
wow man these responses were really insightful
this was really introspective as well - OPJan 31, 2024
Noirr/BPDLovedOnes is one of the most depressing subs on Reddit and that's saying a lot
Read it for about a half hour and that'll give you way more information than you even need
bruh this reddit is crazy
- Feb 1, 2024·1 replyawawh
Sorry you’ve gone through the same s*** man 🫂 Did you deal w the suicide stuff too
yes all the time almost on a daily, dealt with her in and out of wards and hospitals
- OPFeb 3, 2024diced
yes all the time almost on a daily, dealt with her in and out of wards and hospitals
u sure steered me right